Post Date April, 15 2023
The pursuit of a man by a woman is already a very normal emotional interaction event, which is not surprising. It is a problem that people tend to avoid at the first glance. Recently, some news data reported that in some provinces and cities, men are more willing to accept the pursuit of women, and the success stories of women pursuing men are also increasing. So, as a friend who actively pursues boys, don't be overly afraid, don't worry too much, pursuing the boy you like openly is a happy thing, and for the man, it is also a proud and happy thing.
So how do you catch up with guys who work at the bank? Some people may feel that the difficulty has increased as soon as they hear it, because he is a bank employee, which can evoke a sense of grandeur. For example, he has a good appearance, a dignified temperament, a good salary, weekend benefits, and other charming aspects. The resistance to pursuing this type of boy will be great, and the chances of winning will be low. These aspects are both problems and not problems. In order to better address these doubts, two aspects need to be addressed.
Firstly, in terms of the pursued person
Since it has been determined to pursue the man, it is necessary to have a clear understanding of the other party's basic situation, know oneself and the other, in order to win all battles. Firstly, understand the basic schedule of the man, seize his free time, and make full use of it. Be sure to try to follow his QQ, WeChat, Weibo, or other communication platforms, so that you can have more opportunities to understand him from more aspects and gradually intervene in his circle. If these methods are not easy to obtain, start with his colleagues or friends around him, do not question them, after all, this is also a way to approach him. From these aspects, you can learn a lot of information about him. His basic clothing, food, housing, and transportation will always be reflected. To be a thoughtful person and discover his strengths, of course, it is likely that you are attracted to his shining points, which will generate the desire to pursue. Secondly, one should carefully 'brush the sense of existence'. You can give him likes and comments on Weibo and WeChat, find a suitable time to say a few thoughtful greetings, go to the bank more often when you have time, and avoid being too artificial. Your attitude should be natural and generous.
Secondly, in terms of pursuers
As the proactive pursuer, there is more work to prepare for oneself, and special attention should be paid to these points:
Learn to make up and improve your appearance. The man, as a bank employee, values cleanliness and elegance in his clothing, maintaining a stable image. Therefore, suitors must wear moderate makeup and avoid heavy and seductive attire. Try to showcase your cutest and most charming side, highlight your strengths, and use makeup to showcase your beauty instead of pretending. Makeup is a form of respect for others and can also enhance confidence. People naturally enjoy appreciating and accepting beautiful things, why not do it? Control your own body shape, create a beautiful body shape, make the other person's eyes shine, and the memory is particularly deep.
Enhance the connotation and temperament, and win a good impression. The crazy saying 'mainly depends on temperament' spread online is not unreasonable! When interacting with people, your words and actions are all business cards, and they use these cards to better understand you and determine your relationship. The man is a bank worker, who may be more serious and patient in dealing with others, with mild language and meticulous thinking. Therefore, suitors should pay attention to basic etiquette and some details in their interactions with the man, such as maintaining a smile, looking into his eyes when speaking, and saying more thoughtful words. Due to the high pressure of bank work, suitors can use the art of humor, tell jokes, blend the atmosphere, and bring them closer to each other.
Learn about financial investment and wealth management, and accumulate common topics. You can read some books on banking fundamentals, personal finance or risk management. You don't need to be proficient in everything, but you'd better understand some basic concepts and points related to daily life, so that you can have more communication points in the future.
Many girls always sigh when they don't pursue success. Perhaps this is the legendary fate. We are destined to have no fate, but in fact, it's not. Be more sincere, brave and confident, do more preparation work, and do the most urgent things in front of them. Why is it difficult to successfully pursue a bank male employee?
