The first move
After dinner, give her your wallet and she will pay for it. After eating, don't pay the bill yourself. You can use the excuse to go to the bathroom and give your wallet to the woman who shared the meal. Say to her, "I'll give you my wallet. Would you please pay the bill?" She will feel valued and trusted when she pays the bill. In this way, it will automatically close the distance between the two sides. Of course, there must be enough money in the wallet, otherwise it will be self-defeating.
The second move
Understand the true feelings of women: women have two strange characters
1. Women have the habit of loving high places. It is impossible for women to open their hearts in the basement or low places, so they have to choose places that can overlook or have a vision to date. In this place, you can naturally have a romantic atmosphere without speaking. Even men who are not good at speaking can do everything well.
2. Women have the habit of identifying initially. Remember that the impression given by the first meeting is often the key to the success of future communication. Pay attention to the appropriateness of glasses, leather shoes and ties, which is a very important part.
The third move
Grasp the topic and be a man who is congenial to human feelings. If you want to be a man who makes women despise you, there are some ways to shorten the distance. In the face of a woman who likes to talk, you should listen carefully to her. In the face of a more silent woman, you should concentrate on the other side. The topic you are talking about must not be self-centered. To be a man who can master the topic, try the following methods: prepare at least five topics that make the other person positive, lead the other person to say "yes, yes", and try not to add materials that can make others say "no" to your topic to express rejection. In addition, it can make women feel relaxed by arousing the sympathy of the other party or using the other party's favorite materials as topics. If this affirmative question and answer is repeated five or six times, she will think you are the person who can understand her and call her. In this way, there will be some good results gradually.
The fourth move
The more you touch a woman, the easier it is for her to fall in love. Only by touching women can we increase our intimacy. But if it is the first time to meet, we must not do this. This can only be done when there is an opportunity. In cafes and restaurants; It is better to choose a side by side seat, because if you choose a face-to-face seat, you will have no chance to touch each other. It is repeatedly emphasized here that this method is not to teach men to eat women's tofu. As said earlier, it must be carried out under appropriate and natural opportunities.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)