Post Date December, 03 2023
Do you love yourself? If this question is asked to many girls, I'm afraid that many girls are still stuck at the stage where I don't know how to love myself. Some girls told me that they didn't like themselves when they looked in the mirror. Some are trapped in unhappy relationships and say they hate themselves. More girls have been living in a negative mood of lack of self-confidence and self-denial. They feel that they are not good enough to be loved. They feel that they are not thin and beautiful enough to be loved.
Honey, don't be so self-confident, will you?
The so-called confidence does not require perfection, because no one is perfect, and there is no such thing as perfection. Instead, you should understand how to appreciate and accept your own essence, and try to improve yourself and make progress, while not denying your current self.
Since I recently cut the shortest hairstyle in 20 years after graduation from high school, I suddenly feel full of vitality! I also prefer to be myself now. As I told you in the live broadcast, if there is a little tinkling time machine that can go back to any moment in the past, I don't want to, because I like myself now and now best.
I have never been a nostalgic person. I don't like wasting time remembering the past, because I just want to work hard to make my present and future better! Compared with the past, you will like yourself more now, which is also the harvest of growth, right?
In his twenties, he cried only once when he was lovelorn, and in his thirties, he cried only once when he was lovelorn. My dear, tears are not wasted on people who do not love you and are not worth it. In the future, you should cry. Please cry again when you are moved and happy.
We often give ourselves too many frames and constraints, and feel that we must not look good or be able to do it. However, if you never try, you will still stay where you are. So why not give yourself a chance to try it?
I talked with my friend that day and said, "You are still young now." In that case, why should we set too many restrictions on ourselves to let ourselves have more opportunities? (Whether it's work or love, of course, we still need to know how to protect ourselves)
Please be a woman you will love!
Falling in love with yourself is not narcissism or selfishness, but you know how to appreciate yourself, like your imperfect self, and will cherish and respect yourself.
The charm of an attractive woman is not because she is perfect, but because she is comfortable and proud to live her imperfect life without fear of others' eyes and dislike. This is not to be annoying, but to be comfortable with yourself.
The woman who is afraid of being alone always feels uncomfortable everywhere. The woman who is afraid of being not good enough is also always reminding everyone of her shortcomings. The woman who is afraid of others not loving her always needs to confirm every minute whether the other party loves her or not.
Don't you feel so tired? But all this is your own mentality. You let yourself become a person you don't love.
For me, I think it is very important to manage and improve myself, but I will not deny myself because of my shortcomings, but I will improve it with a positive attitude. If I can't change my natural problems (such as height), I will gladly accept them as my unique personal characteristics. Slowly accept yourself, and you will live more comfortably, and this comfortable temperament is the source of your unique personal charm. Don't be a person who always loves to look back on the past, but let your present life be good and worthwhile. Don't be a person who can only miss the past, but be a person who is lucky to be better than the past.
Teach you 6 ways to make boys fall in love with you
1. Understand him, comfort him and urge him.
Living in an era of great pressure, setbacks are inevitable, and men are certainly not different. At this time, your best way is to hold him in your arms, tell him that there is no winner in life, and encourage him to continue to move forward.
2. Praise him and give him confidence.
Men like the feeling of being admired, so the most effective way to make the relationship between men and women close quickly is to praise him.
3. Take advantage of others.
If the boy you love is still single, he must also yearn for the warmth of home. So at this time, you can cook for him, wash clothes, etc., or fall in love with him, listen to his favorite music, read his favorite books, etc., and cultivate the same interests, so that he feels like you.
4. A woman should be pleasing to herself.
Everyone has a love of beauty, let alone a man. So even if you are not beautiful, you should show your unique temperament and style by dressing, so that it is easier to impress your beloved man.
5. Be a kind person.
Everyone likes a kind girl, such as offering her seat to the old man on the bus, being compassionate when seeing small animals, being kind to the people around him, and so on. These beautiful characteristics will touch the softest part of a man's heart and make him feel that you will be an ideal wife.
6. Show cute jealousy.
Women should properly show cute jealousy. A little jealousy will not only let a man know that you care about him, but also reflect the feminine and tender side of women and make a man feel pity. But it is worth noting that we should grasp the degree and not become jealous.
Then you won't live in vain! Be yourself who you will like, and you will also infect others to appreciate your beauty. The girl who always denies herself is not cute at all. Even if she is a beauty, she is not attractive. Always like yourself in the present. Don't be a person who only remembers the past, but be a person who is lucky to be better than the past. You haven't lived in vain!
