Post Date December, 02 2023
The psychoanalytic school emphasizes the psychological conflict of the subconscious. They believe that some orgasms lack the traumatic experience rooted in childhood. For example, a girl growing up in a broken family will form fear and distrust of men if she is deeply impressed by the cruelty of her father and the bitter grief of her mother. After marriage, although she loves her husband, subconscious fear and distrust of men will still hinder her from reaching orgasm.
Coordinate the feelings of husband and wife
Because couples have no feelings or their feelings are not harmonious, there will be no fun in sex. The wife is not a vassal of her husband. Only by being more considerate and caring for her can she gradually forget the unfortunate past. Never express dissatisfaction in words. You can often accompany her to walk, travel and watch movies. Make more efforts in housework, give more encouragement in spirit, and constantly provide psychological comfort to her. When there are differences of opinion in life, we should adopt the attitude of seeking common ground while reserving minor differences and tolerating leniency, so as to alleviate and resolve the conflict.
Acupoint massage
The patient was lying on his back, and the operator rubbed the lower abdomen with the palm of his hand clockwise and counterclockwise, 30 times each. Click Qihai, Guanyuan, Zusanli and Sanyinjiao for 1 minute each. In prone position, the operator presses Shenshu, Xinshu, Ganshu and Mingmen points with one finger for 1 minute respectively. Massage the left or right back under Jingmen acupoint for 5-10 minutes. Then lie on the back, the operator kneaded from top to bottom with two hands and four fingers from the Yinlian and Wuxing acupoints on the upper part of the patient, through the yin bag to the Yinlingquan acupoint under the knee, and repeated for 3 to 5 times.
Actively communicate to alleviate sexual apathy
For a wife who has psychological trauma or mental worries, the husband should patiently guide the wife and help her eliminate her worries. If the pressure and disharmony caused by women's lack of sexual knowledge, both husband and wife should actively communicate, learn sexual knowledge, understand each other's sexual psychology and needs, actively explore and try, and learn to appreciate and praise each other on the premise that both sides agree. Sex should be meticulous, patient and gentle, foreplay more fully, and promote sexual harmony.
Do you know why women are frigid
Drug action
Experts said that oral contraceptives, antihypertensive drugs, anti-anxiety drugs, anti-acid drugs and antidepressants can affect women's sexual desire. It is recommended to ask about the side effects of drugs and take non-hormonal contraceptive measures.
Busy life
Several jobs at home and abroad, as well as the pressure of modern life, will lead to changes in female hormone levels, disrupt the sexual reaction cycle, and affect sexual desire. Experts suggest that a reasonable arrangement of life and a hot bath can help relieve stress, relax body and mind, and improve the sexual life of couples.
Anamorphosis
Fat or pregnancy leads to body shape change, which will cause psychological pressure on women, and then affect sexual interest. Experts suggest that active exercise to lose weight can help improve your sexy recognition and sexual desire.
Before menopause, the level of estrogen decreases, resulting in the impact of sexual life. At this time, the lubrication of vaginal tissue is worse, and dryness causes pain, which makes women afraid of having sex. It is recommended to discuss the advantages and disadvantages of hormone replacement therapy with doctors. If the vagina is dry and astringent, you can choose estrogen ointment or suppository, or lubricant.
Fade sexual interest
Experts say that a husband's lack of sexual interest can also lead to his wife's sexual disorder. It is suggested that couples communicate and discuss countermeasures, and avoid accusations or doubts. For men, "sexual negation" is equal to "total negation".
Suffer from depression
Experts say that depression can lead to a sudden drop in sexual interest. Some antidepressants can help improve sexual life, but some drugs can make it difficult to reach orgasm. It is suggested that psychological treatment and expert guidance should be considered to improve physical and mental health and promote blood flow of genitals.
