Women have rules for single life, which teach them how to live a wonderful and happy life. To learn to enjoy being single, if flowers bloom, butterflies come naturally.
For single women, they don't have much to worry about themselves, and most of them live a real life. Being single does not necessarily mean being lonely. On the contrary, single people live a happy life, they have nothing to restrain themselves, and they don't need to worry about others. Single women have ways to satisfy themselves every day because they have their own code of conduct.
1. Regard love as a luxury of life: with the best, one can still live without it.
2. If your work plan conflicts with your boyfriend's date schedule, choose the former - the former will not disappoint you.
3. Before signing any contract, read it at least three times - the most challenging contract is a marriage contract.
4. Little girls use smoking, night outings, and having more boyfriends to show maturity, so you don't have to.
5. Follow fate, but it's not about not working hard.
6. Necessary items in the handbag: a pair of silk socks (when wearing a skirt), a small flashlight (when returning at night), a bottle of self-defense spray (when acting alone in a remote place - it is better not to act alone in a remote place), a small board of chocolate or vegetable biscuits (when working overtime), a box of good brand skin cream (at any time), wallet, with money in it (at any time).
7. For the sake of your physical and mental health, you can keep a pet. For the sake of your pet's physical and mental health, don't keep it - it is said that they can also suffer from depression if they are too lonely.
8. Take vitamin pills every day and stick to calcium supplements. Otherwise, if you fall and break your leg in the bathtub, even if you can crawl out to make an emergency call and put on your clothes before the doctor arrives, you may still have to lie in bed for three months. You can't wear a skirt for a summer.
9. Monthly bookkeeping.
10. The fewer people there are, the larger the refrigerator needs to be. Mental emptiness and food filling can encourage you to work hard if there is no food available when opening the refrigerator.
11. If you often need to wake up early for meetings, please prepare one high decibel alarm clock - three for those who sleep well.
12. Men who know each other in the bar don't need to leave their phone numbers.
13. It's best not to let the opposite sex on their first date know your residence. If the other person insists on delivering, they can go downstairs - believe me, he won't die of thirst if he doesn't "drop in for a cup of tea".
14. If you have purchased more than ten shirts per month for six consecutive months, consider buying a house.
15. Driving by oneself is better than a man in that it won't run away on its own - of course, it may be stolen, but you can buy insurance, while men cannot buy insurance.
When many people in this materialistic society fight openly and secretly for profit, there is still such a group of single people living happily. Because they have more time and energy to enrich themselves, they will not live for the sake of marriage, they are seen as "alternative" by others. They live every day for a new self, in short, they can live such a noble life.
How Single Women Live Wonderfully
Some people say that single women at a certain age will turn into ruins. In fact, no matter what age group single women reach, as long as they learn to love themselves, every woman can live a wonderful life. How should single women love themselves? By finding what you pursue, adhering to your own principles, and living a simple life, you can also become a smart woman.
1. Cherish the body and not be deceived by immediate interests
Yesterday, the child said, 'Who should I listen to when my mind wants to read but my body wants to sleep?'? I said: You should listen to your body. The reason is simple: when the body is tired, books cannot be read, and the desire to read is only a persistent thought in the mind, while the body is the fundamental existence of the mind. In other words, if you encounter someone whose brain is excited but body feels uncomfortable, even if you can barely get together, the final outcome is basically not very good because the body is smarter than the brain.
2. Live a simple life, carefree like a baby.
The vast majority of women's troubles are caused by vanity. If they see someone else's luxury brand without envy, and see someone else's man making a fortune without envy, they only want a simple life like a baby, without vanity or greed. As long as they eat three meals a day, such women can achieve true self-esteem and self-love. Not being tempted by material things, not being influenced by money, even when encountering a handsome man, one will be rational enough not to be tempted to become disoriented or even lose direction.
3. Regularly work and rest, cultivate good lifestyle habits.
Cultivated women usually have good lifestyle habits, and try to arrange work and rest according to their own biological clock. Moreover, such women can unconsciously correct bad habits in their boyfriend or husband's life while loving themselves, such as playing games late at night or skipping ball games, such as drinking with friends or planning an unhealthy lifestyle until dawn. So, a woman's self-love can affect the person around her who lives together. As long as you love each other, they will definitely be tamed.
4. Relax your mind, but complain about a critical lifestyle.
Those who have read Psychology know that no matter how much dissatisfaction and complaint we have towards external people or things, the root cause is the criticism and criticism from our own inner world towards the outside world. Seeing someone the same, some people will be very happy, some people will be very angry, some people will be very scared, and some people will not feel at all when they see them. Why do they have a negative reaction? Because everyone projects their emotions from their inner world onto that person, with different hearts and different foundations of love, their feelings are also different.
5. Cherish emotions and never become obsessed with illusory love.
In one's life, it is inevitable to encounter the person one loves and the one who loves oneself. They will have their ideal love and the love in real life. The ideal is full, while the reality is bony. Therefore, how to distinguish between illusion and reality is a principle that every woman should understand. Only intelligent women know how to cherish their emotions, and only then can they know how to love themselves more than anything in the illusory world. Moreover, self-esteem and self-love, relying on one's own abilities to create wealth, are the best gains in one's life, and are the foundation of self-esteem and self-love.
6. Learn to boast and give yourself more positive motivation.
If a friend invites you to dinner today, regardless of whether he specifically invited you or took you with him, you should thank him for his charm that attracted this meal? So, have you ever thought about why the other party invited you? It's your positive image that gives the other person a good impression. Therefore, if possible, remember to thank yourself, praise yourself, and even invite yourself to eat and give gifts to reward yourself. This is the reward you deserve. As a result, you will soon discover that you will become more and more beautiful and happy.
Being single is not scary, what's scary is being afraid of being single.