Post Date December, 03 2023
Sexual harassment, an ancient and realistic social problem, contains both moral considerations and legal constraints. When a society's material and cultural life level is in an era of scarcity, sexual harassment incidents are relatively "deficient", whereas when a society's material and cultural life level is in an era of abundance, sexual harassment incidents are relatively "abundant". Hot and dry summer is coming again. Girls wearing all kinds of short skirts and hot pants will inevitably be harassed by salty pigs when they squeeze into the subway. So how can women prevent sexual harassment?
The crowd performance of sexual harassment:
（1） Leader sexual harassment:
After that, he took the manuscript to him. He touched my hand intentionally or unintentionally, and slapped my butt jokingly. Although I avoid it in time every time, I still feel like swallowing a fly. Occasionally, the director will send me a very disgusting text message, which makes people feel like vomiting.
（2） Sexual harassment by colleagues
There was a woman who came to the company soon after her arrival, and a colleague had an idea on her. This guy is a voyeur who stalks her secretly. This lusty man proposes to have sex with her. If she doesn't comply, he threatens to "tell your fiance what he knows". When she got rid of hopelessness, she broke the can and broke it and trampled herself outside.
（3） Sexual harassment by relatives:
When a woman was sitting at the corner of the bed to dress her son, her father-in-law came over and hugged her thigh with both hands. She was frightened to stand up. She did not care about the cold of her son. She picked up her clothes and picked up her son and ran out of the father-in-law's room in a hurry. Her father-in-law repeatedly harassed her intentionally or unintentionally. Although she did not let him succeed, she did not know how to deal with it in the future.
Several misconceptions about sexual harassment
1. Only women are subject to sexual harassment.
According to the general figures, most of the victims are women, but in fact, men also suffer from sexual harassment, but the figures are generally low, which may be based on the following reasons:
1、 The scope of sexual harassment is narrower for men than for women. That is to say, most men have a greater tolerance when defining whether they have been sexually harassed, or most of them don't care. For example, women are more sensitive to being patted on the back than men;
2、 If women are sexually harassed, most men are reluctant to tell the outside world. They worry that no one will believe it. A man is strong, and it is difficult to be sexually harassed by women. If said, it may cause others' contempt and ridicule;
3、 Men's self-esteem makes them reluctant to tell others. Their sexual harassment by women may be interpreted as cowardice, which also shows their weak and incompetent side.
2. Only young, good-looking and good-looking people will be sexually harassed.
No matter who, regardless of his gender, age, appearance, characteristics or background, is likely to be sexually harassed. Moreover, women's sexy clothes can not be used as an excuse for sexual harassment. Women's sexy clothes are meant to provoke harassers. Is it equal to the hope of provoking thieves and robbers to take more property to go out?
3. Physical sexual harassment is more common than verbal sexual harassment
In fact, verbal sexual harassment is more common, such as pornographic jokes. Many people think that some sexually conscious remarks or jokes are a kind of praise to the other party, but the problem is whether the other party's feelings are praise or insult;
In addition, there are also many people who think that this is just their language play, and it is not as serious as the other party's thought of sexual harassment. But one thing needs to be noted: a group of people who tell jokes in their own circle and make sexually conscious talk to other people are completely two things. What's more, these words will cause others to feel embarrassed, uncomfortable, disliked, or hurt.
Many people are accustomed to these behaviors, but like other bad habits, they need to be changed.
Teenagers need to think about ten aspects to prevent sexual abuse:
(1) Trust your intuition, and if you find someone with a bad heart, immediately avoid it.
(2) Take care of your friends and family and let others know your whereabouts.
(3) Use the safest way to get in and out, avoid returning at night and taking quiet paths.
(4) Avoid taking the elevator alone with strange men and try to stand close to the alarm bell.
(5) Be careful of the door and refuse to let strangers in.
(6) Avoid being alone with men you know for the first time, or taking drugs and drinking unknown drinks.
(7) Explicitly express reluctance with "no".
(8) Learn effective self-defense skills and make good use of personal items (such as keys, rings, even umbrellas or shoes) as counterattack weapons.
(9) Keep calm and alert in case of trouble, respond to the situation, shout "fire fighting" is more effective than "help", and attack the weak position of the other party (such as eyes, ears, nose, or lower body, etc.) quickly and accurately.
(10) Keep in mind the characteristics of the offender and delay the conversation with the other party.
