Post Date December, 02 2023
Happiness is the feeling when people's desires are satisfied or partially satisfied, and it is a spiritual pleasure. Happiness is the fulfillment of a person's personality through the realization of personal, collective, and even human goals, ideals, and just and public welfare undertakings in the social practice of creating living conditions.
Happiness is not just about being happy alone.
The ideal state is that when you are happy, everyone around you also feels happy. However, in order to pursue happiness, we may sometimes have to be selfish. There is a Chinese saying that goes, "If I don't take good care of myself, the sky will fall and I can't do anything."
This may be considered a selfish idea, but on the other hand, we are also responsible for our own happiness.
We need to control our lives. We have the opportunity to choose happiness, and the choice of happiness will make our minds happy. However, sometimes, we base our happiness on the pain of others. Perhaps this is inevitable, but this happiness will not last long.
The root cause of happiness should not be based on negative reasons or goals. For example, avoiding tasks that need to be completed can indirectly put your friends or colleagues to bear the responsibility, while you snicker at this time. This particular source of happiness does not last long and can damage your image at the same time.
Now let's look at this issue from another perspective. Would you be happy if you were the person who has been "bullied" all the time but remains silent and patient with the extra work that comes with it?
I would even feel quite unfortunate for you. That's why we have to stand up and take good control of ourselves. We must choose to live happily! We do things that make us happy, but we don't base our happiness on others. If a good man is willing to help others and enjoys what he does, he can be happy.
But is it really fair if someone uses you and builds his happiness on the poor? I don't think so. I am thinking of ways to stop you from becoming a "good man", and what I hope is that we can control our lives and the happiness in our hands. Remember, we all have opportunities.
