Post Date December, 03 2023
In the workplace, men often don't know how to communicate with their colleagues, and sometimes a wrong word can affect their relationships. Occasional mistakes may be compensated for through explanation. In addition to learning to respect others, one should also learn to maintain appropriate distance in interactions with colleagues, and be careful not to intrude into others' 'territory, to avoid being seen as boring.
1. Do you enjoy asking about others' privacy?
In a civilized environment, everyone should respect the privacy of others. If you find yourself having a strong interest in someone else's privacy, you need to reflect carefully. Peeping into the privacy of others has always been considered a behavior of low personal quality and lack of cultivation. In fact, many situations happen unintentionally, such as occasionally discovering the eccentric behavior of a good friend and unintentionally telling others, causing harm to the friend and losing the friendship between you.
Occasional mistakes may be compensated for through explanation, but if there have been several similar incidents, you need to mentally review your own problems. In addition to learning to respect others, one should also learn to maintain appropriate distance in interactions with colleagues, and be careful not to casually invade others' 'territory to avoid being seen as boring.
2. Do you often work with emotions in mind?
If you are often affected by some unpleasant events at work, which can cause your emotions to lose control, then you have made a big mistake. If you see something or thing you don't like and show it clearly, it will only cause colleagues to dislike you. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes, and try to learn to tolerate or remain silent about people or things they don't like.
Your own likes and dislikes may not necessarily conform to others' perspectives. If you often comment easily on others, it can also attract their disgust, causing you to make too many enemies and making your situation in the office increasingly difficult. If you learn to tolerate others, you will win their support and respect.
3. Would you refuse colleagues to enter your living space?
It's not right to just treat colleagues as work partners. Do you have your own colleagues among your friends in your life circle? If not, it's time to review your attitude towards colleagues. In fact, there are many benefits to socializing with colleagues in daily life, such as going on outings together, taking a taxi to work together, shopping for clothes together, renting a house together, and so on.
This can deepen our understanding of each other, promote pleasant cooperation in work, benefit each other economically, take care of each other in life, share our achievements in work, and help each other when faced with difficulties. Making colleagues friends in daily life helps cultivate harmonious interpersonal relationships and has a beneficial promoting effect on one's own work.
4. Do you often borrow money from colleagues?
It is important to handle the economic relationships between colleagues well. Due to frequent gatherings and outings, there are many economic transactions that occur, and the best solution is to adopt an AA system. In traditional communication, people are accustomed to treating each other, generous people will suffer greatly, while those who hold their wallets tightly will be looked down upon by everyone. Now everyone has gradually accepted the AA system, sharing expenses together, without causing a significant deficit for someone or causing discomfort due to the amount of money spent.
It is necessary to clarify the economic boundaries with colleagues, and borrowing money from colleagues in special circumstances is not a problem, but remember to return it as soon as possible. If you often borrow money, others will think you are a person without a plan and will have distrust of your behavior and behavior. Remember not to easily owe someone a dollar and make this a principle. Of course, don't stick to conventions. When encountering colleagues inviting guests for pleasure, don't deliberately refuse, and remember to say more congratulations.
There are many rules to follow in interpersonal communication. If you find that your behavior deviates significantly from these rules, do not hold onto your own opinions. Be sure to maintain a good mindset, use the above review techniques for reflection, and adjust your psychology and behavior with a positive attitude to avoid tragedies like Wen Qi.
To avoid being seen as a boring person, one should also learn to maintain an appropriate distance and be careful not to invade others' 'territory casually.
5. Do you enjoy calculating others?
Anyone hates the calculations behind others, and calculating others is also one of the most dangerous behaviors in the workplace.
The consequences of this behavior can range from being despised by colleagues, to losing one's job, or even falling into disrepute. If you often hold the idea of treating your business competitors as "enemies" or "enemies" and try every means to defeat them, it is necessary for you to review them.
As bosses, they absolutely do not want their subordinates to compete with each other. They hope that everyone can leverage their strengths and bring more benefits to themselves, while mutual exclusion will only cause losses to their own businesses. My colleagues around me also dislike those who like to gossip and use negative tactics. Everyone hopes to work with like-minded people. If they don't understand equal competition and mutual respect with others, they will lose everyone's trust.
6. Do you often compromise with others?
In dealing with colleagues, there is not only mutual support, but also a competitive element. Therefore, the appropriate use of acceptance and rejection attitudes is crucial. A person who only refuses others will attract rejection from everyone, while a person who only compromises with others will not only be considered a good person who cannot bear the responsibility, but also easily exploited by others, leading to serious consequences.
