How should fathers implement sex education for boys? Father pays attention to these aspects in boys' sex education

In reality, many mothers take over the topic of exchanging sperm with their sons on behalf of their fathers, which is very inappropriate. And the father will use the excuse of being too busy with work to avoid sex education for boys, which is an irresponsible behavior towards the children. A mother is very concerned about her 12 year old son's ejaculation. Every time her son changes underwear, she needs to check and confirm with her son whether she has ejaculated after discovering semen on the underwear. Mother's behavior seriously infringes on her son's privacy and makes him feel disrespected.

After a boy enters early adolescence, parents should pay attention to the physiological changes that occur in the boy. The father should take the initiative to tell the child about the knowledge of ejaculation. The specific communication content between the father and the child includes the following aspects:

Tell the child what process they will go through during their first ejaculation

Every man at a certain age produces semen, which flows out of the urethra. On a certain day, when you wake up in the morning, you will find a sticky white liquid in your underwear. This semen is released after you fall asleep at night, which is called ejaculation. This kind of communication prepares the child psychologically, and once there is ejaculation, they will not feel embarrassed or at a loss.

Tell your child about the hygiene after ejaculation. After ejaculation, you should change your underwear and clean your genitals in order to maintain genital hygiene. If you don't change your underwear or clean it, bacteria can easily grow on the semen and infect your genitals.

Let children understand that ejaculation is normal

If the body naturally feels sexual pressure and produces ejaculation, it is in accordance with the natural rhythm of the body. As long as it does not affect life, study, and work, no matter how many times it occurs, it is normal. Each child's physical development status is different, so the frequency of ejaculation varies for each child. Don't blindly emphasize to your child that "excessive ejaculation can harm your body", as such vague words may make them unsure how to determine whether their ejaculation frequency is "exceeding the limit", which can bring psychological pressure to them. Fathers can talk about the feelings of sexual stress in their bodies from their own experiences, allowing boys to have a clearer understanding of the physical feelings that this pressure brings to them, and helping boys accept their own feelings of sexual stress. This is an important link in the development of children's self-awareness.