Sexual Health
How Parents Teach Their Children to Avoid Sexual Aggression and Threaten Their Children's Misunderstandings of Sexual Aggression
A 13-year-old girl named Wang, who had just graduated from primary school, met her "brother" Yang, who was 5 years older than her online. After the two met, they unexpectedly claimed to like her and, despite pleading for resistance, forcibly took away her virginity. After police efforts, suspect Yang, suspected of rape, was captured by Huizhou railway police at Raoping Station of Xiamen Shenzhen High speed Railway. How to teach children what sexual assault is is the first step in preventing them from being sexually assaulted. So, how do parents teach their children to avoid the threat of sexual assault?
How to educate children about sexual assault
1. Sex education starts at the age of 2
In daily life, parents must help their children establish gender awareness and let men and women know the differences.
Sex education can start at the age of two. When parents take a shower with their child, it teaches them the best time to distinguish between men and women and how to protect themselves. For example, it means telling the child that these organs belong to female babies and those organs belong to male babies, and they cannot be touched or allowed to touch these private parts. I usually suggest parents tell girls that you have a little sister who is very fragile and needs your protection.
2. Let children know about their bodies
Parents must help their children understand their bodies. Some parents may find it awkward and ambiguous. In fact, this important part not only needs to have a correct understanding of the child, but also tells parents that no one can see or touch them during bathing and doctor examination Guo Jia said.
Also, tell the child that as long as it involves hidden parts of the body, not all the words of the adult and the teacher are correct, and the teacher's requirements are not necessarily to be fully listened to. Huang Jialiang noticed.
3. Tell children what inappropriate contact is
Guardians should discuss the differences in different types of contact with their children, so that they can clarify what is good contact, what is inappropriate contact, and what is harmful contact
Good touch is something that children like, such as the embrace of parents or the hand in hand of friends; Inappropriate (or harmful) touch is a touch that children want to stop, such as hitting, patting, kicking, or touching children's private parts; A touch that is uncertain whether it is good or bad is a touch that makes children feel confused or uncomfortable. Educate children to quickly leave and run towards crowded areas when encountering uncomfortable touches.