Post Date December, 03 2023
For men, from the moment a woman marries you, they should treat her well and not let her be wronged or bullied by others. If you can't do it well, then please let go of this girl. You don't deserve her love, especially those men who cheat. You really need to think carefully about how much women have sacrificed for the sake of it. Alright, let's learn about it together with the editor!!
Get rid of the shock as soon as possible
Whether it's a one night stand or an affair with another woman (man), it's all about things that can only be shared between couples. He (she) also shares them with another person. As a direct victim of this kind of thing, you must have suffered a great deal of harm. What can be more heartbreaking than the betrayal of your loved one? However, you cannot always indulge in this numb helplessness and self pity. You need to be liberated and nourish your injured soul. Attend more gatherings or outings. These activities can not only distract your attention, but more importantly, help you find yourself.
Give each other a space to think
Does love leave or stay? In the first few days after the truth was revealed, this issue was undoubtedly the focus of discussion and consideration between the two people. Standing at both ends of the scale, you hesitate. At this point, the best approach is to separate from each other for a period of time and calmly consider this issue. You can go on vacation or have a person move out of a cabin for two people for a period of time. This way, both parties can calm down their emotions and avoid making impulsive decisions.
Be honest and relative
When two people can calm down and have a candid conversation, an unavoidable question is: what caused that person to betray their love and commit an affair. Perhaps he/she has always been dissatisfied with your indifference towards being too busy with work, but he/she has not spoken it out and is trying to find comfort in others.
If his/her relationship with that person has not yet ended, it is advisable to give him/her a deadline so that he/she has sufficient time to make a decision. As for the other details of two people together, even the details on the bed, the more you know, the more helpful it is to solve the problem. Because the deceived party often does not ask these questions out of interest, but mistakenly believes that they can use it to achieve spiritual peace. Subsequently, they will inevitably fall into a vicious cycle: the deceived party constantly asks for those details in order to achieve what they call inner peace.
Seek help from professionals
It may not be easy to tell someone completely unrelated about such things between you. However, this approach is often very effective. When you confide in your frustration and helplessness to your good friends, they often take your side and are biased, making it impossible to come up with constructive solutions. And expert advice can make impartial judgments and find effective solutions.
Retaliation psychology is not advisable
If you are not rational enough to take a tit for tat approach and decide to retaliate against your significant other in the same way, this is definitely a bad decision. Perhaps you have received a momentary satisfaction and feel that it is not wrong and fair to allow him/her to fully experience the blows and injuries you were subjected to at that time. However, it should be noted that for already scarred love, the consequences of doing so not only do not contribute to the resolution of the matter, but also make it worse.
Rebuild a sense of trust
Even if the fragments of the relationship are repaired, it is still necessary to establish mutual trust after repair.
You cannot always scold the other person for doing something wrong to you, and insist on them kneeling in front of you to ask for your forgiveness. This is actually meaningless. If you still care about each other's feelings as much as before and hope to continue being together, then if the two of you take some more time to sit down and talk calmly, there may be no unresolved issues.
Looking Forward
It is undeniable that the 'Peach Blossom Incident' has dealt a significant blow to your relationship. However, one cannot always focus on the mistakes made by others, let alone easily expose this matter to ridicule them, or simply complain about others. Try giving love a chance, and when dealing with this matter, you may discover some tacit understanding and connection between the two that you have never noticed before.
