Post Date December, 03 2023
When my wife is addicted to shopping
According to psychologists' analysis, shopping addiction is mostly a compensatory behavior caused by dissatisfaction with certain aspects, or a feeling of loneliness and emptiness, using shopping to escape reality and obtain pleasure. Find out the root cause of her depression, spend some time with her, encourage her to learn computer science, cooking, flower arrangement, tea ceremony, and so on. Shopping is a leisure activity, and she is already busy and naturally has no time to engage in the shopping industry. Faced with a wife who wouldn't go shopping and wouldn't rather die, your money
Bao is her great enemy, so it's better to adopt the method of breaking up the whole into parts and using most of the monthly salary to buy houses and cars in installments, speculate in stocks, and invest. The little money left can only make the wife unable to "compete".
Finally, don't forget that love can melt everything, including the wife's shopping addiction. Take care of her, affirm her, relive the emotions of love, watch old movies, take a ride in the suburbs, and remember to stay away from dangerous shopping areas. Although shopping with your wife can be a headache more than getting drunk, it's fortunate that your wife uses her pickiness in shopping. If they use this mindset to pick on men, by the way, you can only be a 'diamond king' for the rest of your life.
When my wife brings up the old story again
Marriage experts tell us that men all hope to be the first men of women; Women want to be the last woman of men. Although women want to be the 'emotional terminators' of men, the paradox is that they are as curious as archaeologists and always have an indescribable interest in exploring men's past romances. When the wife whispers softly, "Dear, I don't want any secrets between us," you must not be deceived. Smart men will never easily challenge a woman's "measurement". If you confess an old relationship due to a momentary softening of heart, you will soon realize that confessing to the past is actually about not getting along with yourself. Women not only interpret their imagination, but also forget it. Of course, 'killing without action' only applies to wives who have no knowledge of your past. If she has some knowledge of your past romance or if your photo love letter with your old lover is tragically caught, avoid the serious and take it lightly. Only by downplaying it can you fully recover.
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In addition, the best way for a woman to dispel hostility is to speak falsely and belittle and slander her "rival". If you really can't be so 'unconscionable', then use more imagination, think of the past as unforgettable, think of your wife as your favorite idol, until even you think this is the truth.
When a woman speaks, truth shuts up. When your wife is still holding onto your old love, you should mourn and apologize for your past, whether you are wrong or not, until your wife shows a smile and allows you a way out.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
