Post Date December, 03 2023
How Men Deal with Mom and Wife
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law makes it difficult for the "Heavenly King" to escape such traditional family problems. As a middleman, how can a man balance his mother and wife and resolve the conflict between them?
1. Use your role as a fair judge.
A mother loves her son and a wife loves her husband, both deeply and selflessly. Therefore, a man's words carry a lot of weight in the minds of both his mother and his wife. When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law disagree on something, men should come out and balance it. When balanced, be impartial. For example, if a mother-in-law suspects that her daughter-in-law is wearing too fashionable clothes, a husband should say that his wife is a need for work and communication. Tell your wife secretly that you should pay attention to the occasion when you dress. In short, many are trivial matters. As long as a man stands up in time, a few skillful words will resolve the conflict.
2. Transfer the conflict to yourself.
For example, when a mother-in-law dislikes a daughter-in-law's laziness, not washing clothes, or not washing dishes, a man should take the initiative to do housework, or because his clothes are misplaced and eating too slowly, leading to his wife not doing it. Another example is that when a woman in law dislikes the taste of a dish that is too light, the man will come out and say that he is not in good health and ask his wife to make something lighter.
3. Plead both sides with beautiful lies.
In a mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship, a man must be exquisite in all aspects. Sometimes, when a wife complains at her bedside that her mother-in-law is too nagging, it's better for a man to fake it. "When I am with my mother, my mother says that my wife won't be diligent and frugal in managing the household, so I might as well say" Hmm, Hmm "a few times.". In this way, it will make the mother feel that you are still as good to her as ever, and the wife will also feel that you are the best to her. In this way, at least psychologically, a woman's innate jealousy will be eliminated.
4. Use every opportunity to persuade peace.
When a wife buys a dress for her mother, she should seize the opportunity to boast of her filial piety and understanding in front of her mother. When a mother cooks soup for her wife, she should seize the opportunity to tell her in front of her how much she cares about her. With such perseverance, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become better and better. When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are like mothers and daughters, men are left out in the cold. However, this kind of neglect is also a great happiness.
5. Filter negative information.
Behind the scenes, my wife will say "no" to my mother, and my mother will say "no" to my wife. Men should immediately forget these words and never tell the other party again. This negative information must be filtered out by men in order to make the family more pure and harmonious.
