Post Date December, 03 2023
Who is the opposite sex with the highest number of smiles when meeting, the most active pickup, the most passive pickup, and the highest success rate in pickup? Chatting up is the most efficient way to get along, and in order to find happiness, you must learn how to chat up. But how to strike up a conversation? What can I do to win the favor of a beautiful woman? Here are 5 ways to approach people and practice them after reading them!
1、 Make oneself a 'fate friendly person'
Whether taking the initiative or passivity, making oneself appear as someone who is easy to get along with and enjoys getting along with is the primary key to success in a conversation. Research in social psychology has found that those who smile, are willing to make eye contact, and integrate body language into the surrounding environment will spread the invincible charm of "fate friendly people".
So, you should take the initiative to have eye contact with others, nodding gently when your eyes meet, conveying respect and kindness. If everyone has a glass of wine at a party, your hands should never be empty. If there is music, your body should dance with it, so that those who are interested in you and those who belong to you will be happy to be close to you.
2、 Look for clues from the environment and speak elegantly
If you just step forward and say, "I really like you, can I get to know you?" Lucky, you will win the jackpot, but more often, you will be bored because you scare people, hehe! The smartest approach is to look for clues from the environment, so that your mouth is open and not abrupt.
For example, in a supermarket, you can ask, "Do you know how good this brand of product is?" In the library, you can say, "I also like the book you borrowed." In the coffee shop, greet me like this: "I'm here for the first time, are you?" If you could politely add, "I'm sorry to bother you, may I ask..." before speaking, it would be even more likable!
3、 Praising women's temperament and affirming men's abilities
Some men's direct praise to women, such as' you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen... 'can sometimes make people wary. If you want to praise the other person, a better way to do it is to target her temperament: "I really appreciate a girl like you who is quiet (generous) and elegant
Women, on the other hand, should actively get to know men. From the perspective of seeking help, it is often easy to receive a positive response: "My phone is malfunctioning (or my laptop is malfunctioning), could you please help me take a look?" Giving men the opportunity to showcase their abilities, they usually enjoy it.
Women can praise men in a more indirect way. When a man provides thoughtful services for you (such as helping you get a drink), the best compliment is not: "Wow, how thoughtful you are!" The smarter response is: "You know what? I really appreciate considerate men!" This statement is well-known to the other party and not too explicit. Going forward and backward is appropriate. If the husband doesn't mean to, you won't feel embarrassed.
4、 Sound east and strike west, quietly launch an attack
If you see someone who is interested in the opposite sex but is not suitable to speak directly, you can first find a partner of the same sex and chat with them. The volume should be increased a bit (hey hey, make sure he/she can hear you!): "Hi, hello! I'm so and so, are you coming alone?" This starts the conversation between the two. After a few words, you can inadvertently turn to the opposite sex whom you have targeted, Invite him/her to join your conversation: "Hey, what about you? How did you get to know who, who, and who?" Share the sentimental love text
When we are unconsciously approached and invited to join an ongoing conversation, we are usually willing to participate. So, going to a party and finding a same-sex friend to partner with can unleash the benefits of this approach. However, remember that as the conversation progresses, this partner should find a reason to disappear in order to create an opportunity for the two of you to have a deep conversation alone.
5、 Create a chance to meet again
Don't forget to derive a growing period of interaction from today's first meeting. A more natural way is to talk about a common hobby between two people. You can say, "That's great. I have a group of friends who are all movie fans. Let's call you up next time we watch a movie!" In this casual way, you can say, "Please leave your contact information and I will definitely find you next time!" or simply and generously, "I had a great time chatting with you today. Let's exchange ideas next time we have time
