Post Date December, 03 2023
When a man sees a beautiful and attractive girl and wants to approach her, what is the best distance? Approaching, afraid of scaring girls; Far away, the girl cannot hear, and may even be misunderstood as talking to herself, she is crazy.
When a stranger approaches you, no matter what the other person's state or intention is, you will open the automatic protected mode to protect your own security. When you don't know the other person's intention, the closer you get, the more upset you will be and have a certain sense of defense. So when chatting up a girl, leave a certain distance for everyone to feel comfortable. This is called the pick-up warning distance, and the most accurate distance is 1 to 1.5 meters.
The main function of warning distance is not to scare away the other party, allowing them to have enough safe places to continue interacting with you. This is particularly important in some cities in the south. Due to the diverse forms of crime and the lack of strong interpersonal connections, girls in cities such as Guangzhou and Shenzhen may become particularly cautious when chatting up. Although you approached out of goodwill, in the eyes of the other party, it is equivalent to a prelude to a crime, so it is necessary to reserve a safe distance for the other party. Firstly, make girls feel that the environment in which they interact with you is safe before they are willing to continue listening to you. Otherwise, even good dating skills will not be helpful.
Is it better to be further away? No, if you are in a relatively active and noisy environment, being too far away from a girl can cause her to not notice your presence, or it may seem even more strange that the other person only notices you halfway through the conversation. Many cases involve friends starting to talk and interact with a girl even after they are still a certain distance away. The girl has no response, and then the people next to him feel that he is talking to himself, instead magnifying himself as the focal point and adding more social pressure to himself.
