In the sexual relationship, many women will encounter the phenomenon of their husbands cheating. If you want to continue this marriage at this time, don't cry, make trouble and hang yourself, because that will only drive your husband away. So how to deal with the difficult mistress? Look at the following methods!
This kind of office underground romance is the most common. It can be said that it is a kind of "love" that grows over time. It is their "selfless dedication" that makes them feel guilty and reluctant to give up.
Countermeasures: Once you find that the relationship between your husband and female subordinate is unusual, you should keep it in mind. Don't act rashly until you get into trouble with the company. Instead, you should skillfully and repeatedly make excuses to "be a guest" to your husband's unit, show the love of husband and wife and family happiness in his unit, give your husband an IDA in front of her, and vaguely say "I'll wait for you at night". At the same time, create conditions to chat up with the female subordinate, and quickly become friends, and then find the opportunity to "sidetrack", "diversion" and other wisdom battles with the female subordinate, so that she can be convinced by your wisdom and generosity, but also hinder the mutual understanding and retreat.
If the mistress is a divorced woman, it is likely that she is in the mood of revenge and loneliness. The difficulty of them is that they don't care about the third place and satisfy their revenge psychology... It can be said that they put down everything except children.
Countermeasures: Although divorced women put down their faces, they can't put down their children. Therefore, you can use their children to write articles. For example, you can ask your child to write a letter or negotiate directly with her, and use the child to influence her; Another example is to find out the school where her child attends, and then directly negotiate with her, and clearly tell her that if she doesn't give up, she will tell her about being a junior, even spread around the child. This move is a bit harsh, but we must pay attention to the discretion and minimize the harm to children.
Such women are useless except for their beauty. The reason why they willingly become mistresses is for money. Their difficulty lies in money. They are particularly greedy. No matter how much you compensate her, they will feel less, especially the mistress who has given birth.
Countermeasures: If the main room wants to deal with this mistress who is specially for money, it must not try to use money to settle it. You should know that she is a bottomless hole, and will never be satisfied. The only way is to fight against each other and control evil with evil. There is no need to be afraid. As long as she dares to come to challenge, you must not be afraid to make public. You should fight and make noise. She is aggressive. You should be more shrew than her. You should subdue her at one time in terms of momentum.
Women after 90
Women at this age tend to be rebellious and self-centered. They spend time with married men just for fun and often invade others' marriages under the banner of "love". They are rebellious, fearless of heaven and earth.
Countermeasures: As a woman, if there is a post-90s mistress in your marriage, don't panic. She doesn't really want to rob your husband. You should first understand the character of the post-90s sister, and then "set" the details of how they met and went to bed from her husband in detail. You should also win over the husband to fight together, act together, obey her on the surface, and secretly alienate her husband slowly. You must be slow to shake off the post-90s junior. Don't be too fast or too fierce. As long as the post-90s junior is bored and worried, he will naturally want to leave.
The above are some small methods and techniques for dealing with different types of mistresses. Of course, we hope that everyone's marital life of both sexes is happy and happy, but if we encounter these problems, we still need to treat them rationally and learn to defend our marriage.