Post Date April, 15 2023
Before any relationship is reconnected, there is a period of long or short loss of contact. After this period of contact, there is no doubt that there will be embarrassment or even estrangement between the two parties when they get along. This time is often confusing, and one does not know what to do to alleviate the embarrassment between them and advance their relationship. So what can we do to bring the relationship closer?
1. Summarize the past. First of all, deeply consider how to lose or disconnect from each other. What is the reason for this? Is it a breakdown of emotions, a growing estrangement of emotions between the two parties, or a breakdown of contact due to misunderstanding? Secondly, what needs to be considered is that at that time, after you broke up peacefully and had a lot of trouble, did you decide not to have any contact anymore or did you both remain silent and unwilling to exit to detain, resulting in a loss of contact? Only by grasping the reasons that led to your breakup and the thoughts in the other person's heart can it be possible to regain the distance between them and regain their own love.
2. Be different from yourself and let the other person see you. "In the past, you must have some shortcomings, which caused your relationship to fall into crisis. After getting back in touch, what you need to do is improve and change yourself.". If you stay the same, breaking off contact again will repeat itself. The summary of the past mentioned above should be followed by an analysis based on the previous problems of both parties. For example, your personality problem makes the other person unbearable and chooses to leave you alone. "Then apply the right medicine to the situation and let the other party see a person who has turned his character into a good direction. Pay attention to maintaining it at all times. No matter how hard the other party tries, be sure to maintain it, and never" break the rules "halfway through.".
3. Let nature take its course, and do not rush for progress. The lack of communication and communication between two people for a certain period of time can inevitably lead to some embarrassment. Even if they are eager to mend fences with each other, it cannot be revealed, and everything is left to nature. There is no need to deliberately please the other party to bring them closer, just like treating ordinary friends, chatting and eating. When chatting with the other party, try to avoid talking in the past, even if there is any, but also take the good direction. Once you feel that the other party has some aversion, immediately stop the conversation, especially do not argue with the other party about what is right or wrong, which will further distance you from the other party.
4. Take the initiative after the relationship has stabilized slightly. Love is a verb. If you want two people to become closer and closer, it is impossible to blindly treat them as friends. After reconnecting for a period of time, after both parties are relatively calm and the relationship is relatively stable, you can take the initiative to attack. If you are a man, start with the small things around her, and gradually enter her life to get her used to your presence and company; If you are a woman, you should be good at indicating your thoughts to the other party and letting them understand your intentions.
The relationship between two people at the beginning of their reconnection after disconnection is very delicate, struggling at the edge of love and non love. At this time, as long as the right methods and actions are used, they can draw closer to each other, otherwise it can easily lead to reconnection after disconnection or other worse consequences.
