Due to the fact that women are aware of these tricks and tricks behind the scenes, they form an invisible small group isolated from men. In this group, they know what is most stimulating for men, and they find it funny because this stimulation is easy to control. This stimulus has a characteristic: it ensures that men and women never meet. This is very important because for men, a secret must always be a secret, and once the secret is revealed, the mystery naturally disappears.
He is a travel explorer, attracted by the new coastline. Anything that has not yet been discovered will make him infatuated. He wants to discover that he wants to unravel the mystery, and anything that is mysterious but unsolved will bring him great excitement. The earliest visitors to this type of stimulation were boys in early adolescence, when men's focus was entirely on the female body. Therefore, we say that the characteristics of explorers are generally between the ages of 12 and 16.
To understand this type of man, women must engage in some unimaginable imagination, because they cannot imagine how strong this sense of curiosity is from their own perspective. They do not understand the erotic scenes in boys' fantasies, and the power of this fantasy comes from the depths of the boy's heart. Even themselves are the objects they observe and reveal. Of course, it is difficult to associate developing boys with talented explorers. However, the desire to explore any type of science begins with curiosity about sex, and this viewpoint was not unique to Freud. People have been using exactly the same vocabulary in both scientific research and sexual fields for a long time, such as the words "naked facts", "uncover", "peel off", "uncover", and so on that people still use today. We did not find this curiosity in women. For women, a man's body is not a particularly remarkable mystery. A man's body has no ups and downs or charm in terms of appearance. The surface characteristics are almost the same everywhere. A man is actually a rectangular box with a head, legs, and arms. If a man's body is compared to a terrain, it has no eye-catching bumps, no canyons, no hills, no surface changes, no transitions with full charm, and no lovely scenery. And women's bodies are all embossed everywhere, and every time they change angles, they will show a different kind of emotions, which men do not possess. There are no secrets to a man's body: empty, barren, monotonous, overgrown with weeds, swaying a few dry weeds from time to time. At a glance, there are no scenic spots.
The only exception is the unknown, strangely shaped protrusion that shamelessly protrudes from the bushes, with a strange color. When it droops, its materiality cannot be clearly explained; When it erects, it is hard and towering, like a monument to warriors left over from prehistoric times. In short, a man's body is at a glance.
Ironically, playing the role of mystery in front of men is very easy, and the goal is also easy to achieve, as long as you act absurd. There is no need to give any explanation for doing such an unintentional thing. If someone delves deeper into the matter, they can answer with a special look, which means: "I can't even understand this, it's not worth mentioning." However, they avoid discussing the significance of doing an unintentional thing, or deliberately play with their temper and let others explain. However, no matter what method is used, the principle is the same: the appearance is different from the inside, that is, what is done is different from what is thought in the heart. If someone doesn't understand, shift the responsibility to them and add a comment: This person is too numb and not sensitive at all.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)