1. Embrace
Body language contains great energy. Just a hug can make a loved one show a sweet smile on his face. Whether sitting on the sofa with your lover or letting your child fall asleep in your arms, giving him/her a hug and warmth is the best way to express his/her love.
2. Write love poems
One way to say "I love you" is to write a love poem.
You don't need to be Shakespeare, just look for sincere and original ways to express your love. Try not to use vulgar words, but write something meaningful to yourself, such as the way she laughs.
3. Hand in hand
When the relationship becomes comfortable and familiar, things like hugging and holding hands are things we tend to ignore. Try to hold your lover's hand when shopping, or hold her hand on the table. This kind of physical contact will make your feelings closer. This is especially important when you want to discuss a difficult argument or problem. When your lover is in a bad mood, holding her hand is a tangible expression of support for her.
4. Dress yourself up
At the initial stage of the relationship, you will do your best to make yourself look good. Of course, after you get familiar with it, you may not care too much. Dirty clothes, inappropriate sizes, or T-shirts with holes... you may not care too much. But occasionally dressing yourself up will rekindle the excitement you felt when you first fell in love.
5. Take the initiative to do housework
For most people, a very popular gift is to help with housework. If your wife often cleans the kitchen, you can go to clean the kitchen for her and surprise her. If you are often "choked" by nagging, then don't ask anything and go clean directly. You will slowly find that there are many small ways to make some people happy on that day and let them know their position in your heart.
6. Make a special dinner
If you still eat takeout on Friday night, why not give yourself a chance to do it? Prepare a special dinner for your lover. You don't need to find any special interface, nor do you have to be on Valentine's Day or other anniversaries. Including her favorite food, take a few minutes to clean up the table and play some music. I promise you will remember this evening for a long time. Even the ordinary things like sitting on the sofa at ordinary times will still be fresh in your memory.
7. Listen to each other
It is easy to chat with others, talk about news or chat with friends online. When your lover wants to talk to you, you should listen actively, stop what you are doing and focus on it. Listen to what she wants to express, understand what she cares about and worries about, or what she really likes. Do some nods or eye contact to show that you are paying attention here.
8. Prepare unexpected gifts
You must have given gifts to your lover, such as on their birthday, Christmas or special occasions such as Valentine's Day.
But have you ever given a gift on a normal day? For the recipient and the giver, an unexpected gift brings the most heartfelt happiness. However, this gift doesn't need to cost much. For example, send them a chocolate they like, a bunch of small flowers, or a book you know they like... and so on. You will find that this is also a good way to say "I love you" without much money.
9. Leave a note in an unusual place
Perhaps your life has become so busy that you find that your schedule rarely arranges the time you spend with your spouse or children. Why not try to leave a note in some places to give them an accident. As you may know, mothers will leave a small note in their schoolbags for their children. You can also start here, or you can try to leave a note beside the kettle, on the refrigerator door, on the pillow, on the computer screen, etc. Maybe it can be a "competition" game between you, and the game is about who posted the most hidden place!
10. Massage the shoulders or feet
Life is very stressful. Most people have experienced muscle soreness. Give your lover some shoulder, back or foot massages to make her feel your love. This is equivalent to telling her that her health and comfort are very important to you, and it is also a good way to strengthen your physique and enhance feelings.