Post Date December, 03 2023
"The object of love is usually rushing to get married, so no matter when, we should consider clearly what kind of person the other person is, what kind of family the other person is, and what hobbies the other person has.". These are all things that need to be clarified. Of course, the most important thing is personality. How is personality? This is very important. So, how can you see a person's personality during a love period? Okay, let's take a look at it with the editor!!
Typical 1: First time meeting/dating, no money left.
Even if it's a blind date, everyone still belongs to strangers, but the stingy man who spent most of the summer in the park without buying a bottle of mineral water, how good do you think his character can be? As for requests for AA or something, they may be too defensive, too stingy, or simply don't look up to you. For non blind date types, when this happens, it's even more important to consider it clearly. Don't think it's frugality. As long as you don't spend too much, a man who takes you to heart won't care about such a small amount of money.
Typical 2: Love to inquire about you and your ex
"It's definitely not a good thing for a man to gossip too much. Not long after I've known him, he likes to inquire about things between you and his predecessor, indicating that this man has a deep heart.". What he wants to know is the extent to which you and your predecessor have reached, and then analyze the reasons for your yellowing. Women should understand that they should try not to talk about their predecessors with their current colleagues. Even when it comes to this topic, it's okay to downplay it. The more detailed they are, the less beneficial they are. Don't let men easily see through their bottom line.
Typical 3: Bad words about your predecessor
If you ask about his predecessor, he immediately asks Balabala why his predecessor is not a thing, how conscience dog lung, this is definitely a worthless man, depreciating others and elevating himself, what can be a good guy? Somehow, once we fell in love, even if we didn't leave good memories, we should at least remain indifferent.
Typical 4: Breaking up with your ex due to disagreement from your family. If he said that your ex was actually quite good, it was because your family disagreed that they broke up. Then you need to keep an eye on it. He may well be the legendary "pacifier man", and there will be a "tough mother-in-law" waiting for you in the unexpected future. "Let's walk and watch, don't get caught up in it. Most men like this are gentle, but as long as the family doesn't agree, they can show you immediately and coldly.".
Typical 5: If you are occasionally late, I will immediately show you my face
"If you are often late for appointments, that's why you are. Everyone gets angry.". However, if you are usually relatively punctual and occasionally fail to arrive in time for some reason, causing him to wait and not have a good face to show you, it indicates that he is an impatient person himself. But if you don't mind, you can do nothing about it. Just don't forget to take care of him before marriage, otherwise you'll have to make yourself act quickly.
Typical 6: Show displeasure whenever it doesn't suit him
"If he demands everything from you, there is a strong tendency to follow his instructions. If you slightly fail to meet his requirements and meet his expectations, he will be full of unhappiness.". Don't naively assume that he is doing it for you and wants you to improve. This is just a manifestation of his strong control and lack of patience. "If you are in love now, then if you get married in the future, you will be even more overwhelmed, unless you have a tendency to self abuse and are prepared to" obey "for the rest of your life.".
