Post Date December, 03 2023
In life, many men lie to women, but how can women tell? Which signals can help us identify lies?
Tip 1: Don't mention yourself or your name
Psychologist Wesman from the University of Hertfordshire in the United States said, "People naturally feel uncomfortable when lying, and they instinctively eliminate themselves from the lies they tell. For example, if you ask your friend why he didn't come to the scheduled dinner last night, and he complains that his car broke down, he has to wait to fix it. Liars will use 'the car broke down' instead of 'my car broke down'
So if you ask someone a question and they repeatedly omit 'me', they have a reason to be suspected. On the other hand, liars rarely use the names of the people they implicate in their lies. A famous example is a few years ago, when US President Bill Clinton spoke to the country, he refused to use "Monica" but instead "I didn't have sexual intercourse with that woman".
Tip 2: Repeatedly asking the liar the same question
Ask someone a question and wait for them to answer. Ask again and the answer will remain the same. Leave a gap between the second and third times. During this period, their bodies will calm down and they will think, 'I have already muddled through.'
After all physiological reactions subside, the body relaxes into a normal state. When you ask this question again while they are not paying attention, they are no longer in a state of lying. They are not angry and tend to confess. If a person says, 'Didn't I already tell you about this?' and then gets angry, it's mostly deceiving. I may also say to you, 'This is the case, I'll just tell you straight away.'
Tip 3: When lying, the eyes will look up and to the right
Liars never look into your eyes - they know this advice, so savvy liars will double their focus on your eyes and dilate their pupils. Everyone remembers the criticism from their mother when they were young, 'You must have lied again - I know, because you dare not look into my eyes.' This teaches you from a very young age that liars dare not look into the eyes, so people learn to do the opposite to avoid being detected In fact, when the deceiver looks at you, their attention becomes too focused, and their eyes begin to dry, which makes them blink more, which is a fatal information leak.
Another accurate test is to directly stare at someone's eye movement, which indicates that their brain is working. Most people, when their brain is "building" a sound or image (in other words, if they are lying), their eye movement direction is in the upper right. If people are trying to remember what really happened, they will look up and left. This type of 'eye movement' is a reflex action that pretends not to come unless strictly trained.
Tip 4: Liars Never Forget
Try it on your friends and ask them what they did two nights ago from leaving the office to going to bed. They will inevitably make a few mistakes in the narrative process.
It is difficult to remember all the details of a time period. People rarely remember everything that happened, and they usually repeatedly correct themselves and streamline their thoughts. So they would say, 'I'll go home and sit in front of the TV - oh, no, I called my mom first, and then I sat in front of the TV.' But liars do not make such mistakes when making statements, as they have already figured everything out in the hypothetical scenario of their minds. They never say, 'Wait a minute, I'm wrong.' However, it was precisely the reluctance to admit their mistakes during the presentation that exposed them
Tip 5: Sudden changes in volume and tone of voice. The liar's voice may unconsciously rise
If you ask your husband who just called and he suddenly starts talking like a magpie, you need to be vigilant. When lying, the tone increases often because the liar is trying to cover up their weak heart.
