Post Date December, 03 2023
Question: Female, 28 years old, unmarried. At the age of 28 this year, my parents are always asking me to find a mate and ask me to go on a blind date, but I have never been on a blind date, and I am a little nervous. I want to know how to make a good impression on each other during the blind date?
The netizen "Dongdongshen" replied: There are still some skills to make a good impression on each other when making a blind date. My husband and I got to know each other on a blind date. Now I share my experience with you. I hope it can help you!
1. Wear light makeup before dating
No matter how good you think your skin is, if you enter the ranks of single leftover women, force yourself to apply a facial mask before the blind date. Especially, nowadays, many blind dates are arranged in the daytime of holidays. In the coffee shop, in the quiet place near the glass window, two people sit opposite each other. I tell you that the sun will make any flaw on your face invisible. You can even see the texture of foundation make-up. The most beautiful beauty is also afraid of the sun. Before dating, do a good job of moisturizing the skin. This is the first hurdle for your confidence.
2. Think about the topic of chat in advance
Before the blind date, force yourself to set ten topics. During the blind date process, you can throw out the conversation at any time according to the situation to avoid the cold shoulder. Of course, the topic setting also has skills. During the blind date, we must avoid the stereotyped way of asking and answering questions. However, if we encounter an introverted and reticent object, we can draw it from some popular interesting news topics. From the conversation, we can secretly experience the tendency of the other party in the interesting aspects of life. But when you meet for the first time, remember to mention "money", and avoid mentioning some topics that are too obvious about the other party's directionality, so as not to make the other party dislike your "vulgarity".
If you can, you'd better communicate with each other several times by telephone before the blind date, and then meet after you have a certain preliminary understanding of the other party. This will have more common topics and will also ensure the success rate of the blind date.
3. Be sure to arrive a few minutes later than him on the blind date
The woman on the blind date must not be a young girl in her twenties, so if you arrive earlier than the man, it will make people feel that you are in a hurry and in a hurry. Don't listen to others say that the girl who arrives on time feels simple and just lies. We are not on time. If he arrives 10 minutes early, we will arrive on time. If he arrives on time, we will be two minutes late. Think about how to operate it.
4. Control the time of blind date
If you are not in love at first sight or extremely speculative. The time of the blind date should not exceed two hours. For the first time, don't hold the purpose of long conversation. If you feel good about the other party, you should also say good-bye at the right time. If you want to ask in your heart but haven't been able to ask, you can go home and ask the matchmaker for solutions, or leave for a detailed chat next time. In short, we should control the time of the first blind date, which is short and vigorous, and the most appropriate!
5. Don't order anything especially expensive
Don't order expensive dishes, especially when your date is a diamond queen, he will think you want to blackmail him. But if you order a very cheap dish, he may feel that you can't be on the table in the future, so it's enough to let him know that you are not arrogant and extravagant, but it's not that you haven't eaten it before. Usually my advice is to order a green vegetable, which is difficult to make mistakes. Drinks, of course, yogurt. He likes to drink milk, which can make him think.
6. Talk less and smile more during blind date
If you say more, you will lose more, and you must remember. Even if he thinks you are a speechless person in the future, that will be the next thing. You have to restrain me for the first time! Ladies are sitting there smiling. If the other person is too talkative, and you take a fancy to him, bring up a few topics. If he still doesn't talk much, you can tell him a joke. Say this: "No, I'll tell you a joke. You can't stop laughing." Even if you don't speak well, he will think you are cute.
The above is my summary of dating skills. I hope it can help you!
