Post Date December, 02 2023
Introduction: Many couples have probably encountered situations where they have a good relationship with their loved ones, and their lifestyle habits, interests, and hobbies can be pleasant and harmonious no matter what they do, but only for one thing - sleeping. At night, when you go to bed, you are in various conditions and cannot fall asleep for a long time. For example, TA's snoring makes you unable to fall asleep all night; For example, TA's sleeping habits are not honest, and they are accustomed to rolling away their blankets... Such disharmonious habits. So, how can we break the phrase 'unable to sleep together'?
Situation 1: One likes to sleep on a hard bed, while the other needs to be as soft as possible
Some people say that being single means being free and making choices according to one's own preferences, but when two people are together, they must learn to accommodate each other. But are you used to sleeping on a hard board bed, but when you have a sore back and waist, you can only compromise on one side, resulting in poor sleep throughout the night?
Actually, if you have different preferences for the hardness of the mattress, you can achieve both following your own habits and sleeping happily together. The method is to put two single mattresses on the double bed frame, isn't it so easy!
If you feel uncomfortable with the small gap between the two mattresses, you can use another mattress the same size as the bed to perfectly cover the gap!
In this way, you can choose the hardness of the mattress that you are accustomed to, and you can also see each other sleeping sweetly beside you. Why not?
Situation 2: They either roll up all the blankets or kick them away
She sleeps dishonestly and always takes your quilts for herself or kicks them away. When you wake up in the morning to "accuse" her, she is full of grievances and looks like she doesn't know what happened.
The best solution to encountering a partner who sleeps dishonestly, besides getting cold, is to use two blankets. It's very simple, isn't it? This way, you don't have to worry about waking up in the middle of the night and having to compete with the sleeping TA for bedding. Unless your TA is so powerful that you can even take away two blankets
Not only that, you can also choose the thickness of your blanket according to your preferences, so you don't have to force yourself to share a velvet blanket with someone who is afraid of the cold. You wake up in the morning sweating all over.
Situation 3: She always likes to constantly turn over at night
A girl friend once complained to Xiao Bian about her boyfriend turning over when she was about to fall asleep, which repeatedly led to her inability to sleep well all night. If you don't have any spare rooms to sleep in with, you can solve this problem by upgrading your bed.
You can choose to upgrade the size of your bed so that it can have its own "territory" without interfering with each other. You can also directly exchange a double bed for two single beds. Of course, if you're not used to separating like this, you can put two single beds next to each other.
Research has shown that about a quarter of couples choose to sleep in separate beds, indicating that this is not a rare occurrence.
Sleeping in separate beds or rooms does not necessarily mean that there is a problem with your relationship. Some conflicts related to sleep, such as the other person turning into a "boxer" as soon as they fall asleep, and the other person turning over every half hour on time, can be resolved by sleeping separately. Resolving conflicts can be more meaningful than formally sleeping in the same bed, as it will make your relationship more harmonious.
Situation 4: One person wants to lie in bed and watch TV, while the other person is unable to sleep due to noise
What should you do when your partner is clamoring to go to bed, while you are thinking about the upcoming TV series or football game? In addition to leaving her alone in the bedroom, you can also wear headphones, dim the TV light, and lie in bed, watching the TV you want while "accompanying" her to sleep.
When your habits before going to bed are different, such as listening to sound to fall asleep, but you prefer quieter surroundings, wearing headphones is also a good solution. Why not follow your past habits and accompany each other to sleep?
Situation 5: If your partner wakes up in the morning and you love to sleep in, how can you break it?
Some people are greedy for sleep, some like to wake up early, and everyone has their own lifestyle habits, which is understandable. But if it happens that your TA and your waking rhythm are different, wouldn't it be very troublesome? When you are still asleep, you have already got up and started washing up. Accompanied by various sounds, you toss and turn, and the whole person is not good.
What should I do at this time? It's actually quite simple. If you want to wake up early, you can prepare your clothes one day in advance and leave them outside the bedroom. This way in the morning, you can change your clothes and go out without disturbing your other half. Is it much happier to send you a "good morning" message when you wake up from a full night's sleep than waking up and watching them get angry at you?
Conclusion: Sleeping is not a small matter, whether we can sleep together or not is related to whether we can have a happy life together in the future. Try to adapt to each other as much as possible.
