Showing affection does not necessarily mean dividing quickly, it depends on whether you show genuine affection or fake affection, and whether the way you "show" is intelligent and elegant.
There is an old saying in the Jianghu that Xiu En Ai dies quickly, which means that excessive Xiu En Ai will cause public anger and add unnecessary pressure to this relationship. If you can't bear it, there will be a quick death over there.
How to show affection correctly?
Truly Show Love
Love should be expressed bravely and sincerely, because only in this way can men and women from different planets perceive each other's psychology and feel cherished and loved. So, showing affection is not a big problem, the key is to first understand whether the beautiful love shown is real or disguised.
Why show off to everyone?
To clarify the boundaries between the expression of love and showmanship, we may as well categorize the psychological motivations behind showcasing love in more detail.
1. Passionate Love Period
It is natural to convey love to each other in public without excessive external interference and with healthy emotional relationships between both parties. Because when people experience happiness in a relationship, they unconsciously want to express it, and the energy of happiness is like a volcano, not erupting.
For many introverted and shy individuals who are not good at speaking, the emergence of the internet provides them with the best way. So you will see that the more ordinary people are when they don't talk about love, the more they tend to use the internet to show off their love.
2. Express' I'm fine '
The subtext of 'I am loved' is' I am good enough to be loved '. Therefore, showcasing one's happy side on social networks can undoubtedly help a person establish a good personal image.
3. Declaration of Possession
If you are not confident enough in your partner's (or your) feelings during a relationship, subconsciously you hope to declare your ownership through "showing affection", and you can also gain a sense of satisfaction from it.
The more we lack something in our hearts, the more we hope to show a sense of abundance in it.