In the eyes of many people, love and bread are two paradoxes. Love without bread is poor, but bread without love is tasteless. It seems that few people can breabread and love with one hand. In fact, love and bread are not contradictory. We can all have them at the same time. What should we do? Here we will analyze the case of "how to recover the breakup with your girlfriend because of the wedding ring", and teach you how to integrate love and bread organically.
Case introduction:
The man and the woman have been in love for many years, and finally decided to make this love a success. It is not easy to set up a family. Propose, get engaged, get married... The man has limited financial conditions, but the woman asks the man to buy her a ring at this time, otherwise she will have to part. The man knew that he was in love with each other, and this ring should also be given. For the breakup proposed by the woman, he wanted to save the girlfriend, but he could not buy the ring for a while.
Case study:
Love her and give her what she wants. It can be said that marriage is a lifelong event. It is every woman's dream to see her lover wear the ring for herself when she gets married. But if this is to turn into a bubble, a woman's heart must be uncomfortable. You said that you love her, and if you want to save her, you should try to give her what she wants, because you can't satisfy her and others can satisfy her, so you don't love her enough. Regardless of whether your girlfriend is materialistic, you should love her for everything, including good and bad. So the first step to save your girlfriend is to understand this truth: to love her is to give her what she wants.
Communicate well. No one can really be a worm in another person's stomach. Even a confidant, there are always misunderstandings. So when there are discordant voices, we must be good at communication. Find a quiet place to sit down and discuss this problem face to face with your girlfriend. If she still loves you, she will not refuse to communicate with you, because she also wants to solve this problem and stay with you. Make sure that she really wants a wedding ring, and let her know that you really have no conditions to give her the ring she wants now, but bread can be earned. If love is missed, it will never come back. When her heart softens, you should seize the opportunity to combine bread and love.
Use interesting ways to reassure her. She understands your difficulties, but she really wants to get a wedding ring, so she is struggling, and what you have to do is to reassure her. Two methods are recommended here. One is to write an IOU. It is not to ask you to write how much money you owe her, but to write that you owe her a wedding ring. Looking at your serious manner, she may laugh. The other is to wear a ring. You can buy a creative jewelry ring for her and promise her that you will earn the ring she wants by your own efforts. The woman who really loves you will believe you.
Finally, don't forget to take out your actions to prove your sincerity, work hard and earn bread, not only for the ring, but also to create a good living condition for her happiness. Love and bread can be organically integrated. As long as you grasp love and earn bread for love, you will find that love bread can have both.