Marriage is the sublimation of love, not as simple as love. Even two people with strong emotional foundation will inevitably be troubled by various trifles after marriage, the sharp increase of pressure in all aspects, and the change of personality of both parties, which will affect the feelings of both parties. Women play a very important role in marriage. Women's words and actions can affect the trend of the whole marriage. When marriage encounters a bottleneck, how can women save their marriage?
Less complaints, more tolerance and understanding.
As the saying goes, marriage is a mirror, and all your actions will be shown from the other side. As a woman, you may hope that your husband can meet your requirements in all aspects, make money, be considerate, gentle and considerate in everything... However, you should understand that there is no perfect person in the world. Your husband is the backbone of your family, but also your lover at the same time. You should think more from his perspective, reduce your complaints about him, and understand and tolerate him more. If you think more about him, he will naturally share your worries and solve your problems for you, so that marriage can become more and more harmonious.
Love the dog and the dog.
A man has friends and relatives in addition to his career. If you love him, you must love him all. For a man, you can make trouble with him occasionally, but you must be filial to his parents and treat his brothers and friends well, so that he can recognize you from the bottom of his heart. Don't compete with his parents, let alone keep worrying about who is more important in his heart. You should respect his parents and honor them with him. How you treat his parents, he will treat your parents as well, and will be filial to them as you do. You have one more thing in common.
Focus on image.
Even after marriage, don't neglect the shaping of your own image. Even at home, don't drag a nightgown all day long, and wear your hair without care. Maybe neither you nor he will think it is abnormal, but he will certainly mind it for a long time. No matter who they are, they all like clean and tidy women. Even in the face of their husbands, women should "like their husbands" and dress appropriately, at least clean and fresh, so that men's eyes can stay on you all the time. Don't think it will lose face to "please" him. You don't need face in front of the person you love, unless you don't love him.
Don't neglect the cultivation of marital interest.
When falling in love, they tend to pay more attention to the cultivation of interests, such as shopping, watching movies and traveling together, but after marriage, they may neglect the interests of the couple due to the focus of family or other reasons. Therefore, women should be good at communicating with their husbands. For example, on Valentine's Day or wedding anniversary and other meaningful festivals, even in ordinary times,