As long as a woman is jealous, it is not only because she is jealous of women who have nothing to do with her, but also because she is jealous of her relatives. Sometimes, the bottle of jealousy falls to the ground. It's okay to be jealous, the key is to see if you can eat wrong. Clever women know how to tie men down with jealousy.
How can a woman be suitably jealous? How are men most afraid of women being jealous? Let's take a look at the key points mentioned in the article.
Men are most afraid of women's jealousy
Don't be jealous
What I mean by not being jealous here is actually just an external manifestation of women, because there are almost no women in the world who are not "jealous". The reason why they appear not to be jealous is because they always use their inner patience, tolerance, and generosity to explain it. Perhaps their approach is highly praised by many people in society, but from the perspective of women themselves and marriage, I am very opposed.
"Because for women in marriage and love," vinegar "must still be eaten, and it must also be eaten honestly and openly. Only by eating" vinegar "well can you vent your bad emotions, and it is also a manifestation of the best and simplest love for each other.". "Women who are not jealous are tantamount to allowing other women to invade. However, proper" jealousy "in marriage can form a protective wall that keeps you and your man inside, preventing your marriage from easily deteriorating.".
Knock over the "vinegar jar"
In real life, there are many women who are full of "jealousy". As soon as they discover that a man has a slight sense of "running away", they will immediately turn into an overturned vinegar jar. The sour water runs all over the place, and the acid cannot be stopped. They can easily cry and cry loudly, and even scold the men's seven aunts, eight aunts, and eight generations of ancestors together. They even seek death and seek to make trouble with the men's units and leaders, causing the men to be ruined by fame and death.
This approach is obviously too much and seriously violates the psychological starting point of being jealous. "Being jealous" is supposed to be a manifestation of caring about and loving men, but ultimately turning their noisy love into hate, even irreparable personal humiliation and social decline for both spouses. This cannot be said to be a foolish behavior, and it is even more harmful to marriage without any benefits.
"Be jealous" every day
Generally speaking, being jealous every day in life is beneficial to health, but being jealous every day in marriage is not desirable. According to my understanding, most men actually want their women to eat some "vinegar" from the bottom of their hearts, which is an emotional need and a manifestation of men's value. However, almost no man likes women to be "jealous" every day. Otherwise, even if women are more attractive and understand the art of marriage, men will one day suffer from toothache and stomach cramps, and have to flee.
Based on my experience, I believe that a woman's "jealousy" should be based on a man's acid tolerance and "good jealousy" level. It is best not to schedule "jealousy" behavior three or more times a week. Even if it is beyond self control, it is necessary to learn to change the form and taste of "vinegar". For example, the previous time you used silence to ignore others, this time you have to use tears, and the next time you will mainly use scraping language and sarcasm.
"Be jealous" regardless of occasion
I often find that some women eat "vinegar" regardless of the occasion. Whenever they smell the sour smell, they will immediately launch a "vinegar frenzy" wherever they are. Often, "vinegar startles four people," which not only makes men and themselves feel embarrassed, but also embarrasses other people present. In fact, this approach is quite undesirable, not only harming one's own image, but also giving others a chance to speak up and take advantage of it. A wise woman will give face to men and everyone, as well as to herself. When no one or two people are at home, she will "raise a teacher and ask for guilt." This is in line with the ancient adage that family shame should not be publicized and pacify others. However, I am not opposed to using this method for some men who have too thick skin and do not understand self-esteem.
Eat any "vinegar"
Smart women always choose to eat "vinegar". They do not necessarily eat it whenever they encounter it and do not refuse it. Instead, they will use their wisdom to make a selection based on the actual situation and the situation at that time, because in their opinion, some "vinegar" is inedible or useless to eat.
For example, a husband loves his children more than he does, respects his parents more than he does, or is more enthusiastic about his sisters, or is favored by a female boss, or even has a career that requires him to constantly interact with other women... In such cases, a woman must show generosity, and when it comes to doing something or not, it is difficult to be confused, The most important thing to do is to constantly improve one's self cultivation and resolve various possible marital crises with one's own interests, temperament, and generosity.
Therefore, to be jealous, one must master the heat, and some jealousy is used to flirt; But try to curb some jealousy. Even if you feel unhappy, try to be generous. This way, your partner will appreciate your understanding and will cherish you even more in the future.