Post Date December, 03 2023
When you discover that you are gay, you may suffer from being unable to tell your parents. In fact, there is no need to do this at all. You are the child that parents love the most. If you use an appropriate method to tactfully tell your parents, they will definitely give you more understanding. Even if you are beaten for this, it is a manifestation of deep love for you. So how do you tell your parents that you are gay?
Shi Wenquan is 28 years old and a gay patient. I have been working alone for many years, and my colleagues around me know that he is gay. Shi Wenquan also acknowledges his sexual orientation. Only in front of his parents did he not show it. There were several times when he wanted to tell his parents about his homosexuality, but ultimately he didn't speak up.
Later, Shi Wenquan's mother wanted to introduce him to someone, but he refused to agree, which made his parents sad and sad. Shi Wenquan saw it and felt very painful. He wanted to confess his homosexuality to his family, but he was afraid that his parents wouldn't accept it. Now, he increasingly doesn't want to go home and is trapped in a painful and contradictory life.
Many homosexuals are afraid to tell their parents, fearing that their attitude will become rough and drive them out of their homes. Therefore, homosexuals must think twice before telling their parents.
For example, you can ask your parents' opinions on homosexuality from a side view, see their reactions to homosexuality, and listen to their feelings. Then tell them, 'If I were a homosexual, what would you think?' Use a hypothetical tone to understand your parents' psychology. If their attitude is very gentle, then you should push the boat and tell them the fact that you are homosexual. If your attitude is particularly strong, then you need to shift the topic. Then you can tell your older brother or sister to tell your parents as a third party, which makes it much easier for them to accept that you are gay.
After some homosexuals confess to their families, if their parents can accept it, they will put down their psychological burden and live a relatively easy life. The next step is to yearn to bring their same-sex partners into the family and return to a happy family life.
