Post Date December, 03 2023
"I broke up with my boyfriend due to the issue of the house, but in fact, only I know this is only an objective reason. The main reason is that I already have someone else in my heart, but he has a home and a room, and I only have the right to use them without ownership, which is what he told me.".
Now my boyfriend has told me he can't leave me and promised me to buy a house, but I haven't refused either, because I know I still need a home in the end. Every time I go out to play with my boyfriend, I feel like I'm forcing a smile on my face. Living like this is really tiring. What should I do? I have never thought of destroying someone else's family, but if I don't, how can I be happy?
Teacher Zhang:
The fact that you want to pursue love is beautiful in itself and beyond reproach. Because everyone has the right to seek happiness and happiness. However, we should know that true love requires learning. If you want to achieve true happiness, you need to develop a more healthy true self, which means that your own happiness and happiness depend on your own responsibility, not on your boyfriend and lover to bring you temporary pleasure. To achieve true and lasting happiness and joy, you must rely on yourself to do something that makes you proud to increase your sense of value.?
"Even if you already know that you have only the right to use and no ownership of him, do you still want to be with him? Think about how satisfied you were when you were with him?"? Perhaps you will feel that he is your soul mate, who can generate a lot of emotional resonance, and feel very close mentally. But generally speaking, in addition to the "long-term emotional type", male affairs are mostly about seeking satisfaction of desires. In addition, when you psychologically view love as a job that requires success, the more opposite the result of finding a sense of achievement is. The more relaxed you are and the more able you are to follow your fate, the easier it is for love to appear. This is a very interesting truth in the world.
"Your knowingly caring for criminals is like a young child who always wants to destroy things that adults believe cannot be done. When a child doesn't take it seriously, the result is that she will pay the price for her behavior and grow up.". People may need to experience some things before they grow up, and when they grow up, they will be responsible for their own behavior. Therefore, whether they are happy or not, they can only taste it by themselves. "What to do? I think as an adult, you will know how to choose is appropriate.".
