Post Date April, 15 2023
[Question]
My wife looks very beautiful, and even a little grooming can make her stand out. She cleans herself up neatly and cleanly every day. Summer has arrived, and my wife's skirt has become shorter, but my heart has also started to get restless.
Almost every summer, she would find some reason to go on a trip. The year before last, we just got married, and not long after our honeymoon, she said she wanted to go out to relax. I couldn't take that long leave from work, and she went alone and I didn't trust her. As a result, she got angry with me, ignored me for more than ten days, and remained deadlocked for most of the month. I couldn't help her, so she went to Rizhao alone.
Last year, she wanted to travel again, and I agreed. As a result, from April to October last year, she went out five times, almost every time for more than five days, with the longest lasting for a full eight days. As soon as she goes out, I can't find her. She always says that the signal outside is not good, and I'm not stupid. With such widespread internet coverage, how could there be no signal in the hotel?
I had already noticed and paid attention to her movements. She likes to be flirtatious with people too much. I have watched her phone and maintained an ambiguous relationship with several men from other provinces who I have known during my travels. They call her husband and wife, and several men call her wife, which makes people feel uneasy.
Later, her phone was also locked with a password, and she refused to let me see it, saying that I interfered with her freedom and privacy. She's been researching her travel strategy again recently, and she probably wants to go out on a wild trip again. How can I manage her?
Answer
I can't leave it because I can't put it down. Behind every capriciousness, there is a sense of grievance.
Why are you too angry to speak up? Most likely, you are more afraid of losing her. To put it bluntly, it may mean opposition, but aside from the days she travels every year and the time she spends on her phone, your relationship is still good. She always has some redeeming qualities that leave you unsatisfied.
Unable to bear it, he endured it. Just suppressing the dignity of being a husband and the loyalty of being a partner for the time being, how long can you tolerate this state, and your own heart is also uncertain. You don't know on what day the eruption of landslides and landslides will occur.
She can evade your doubts, but you can't help but face them. Obviously, your emotions cannot feed her. Her appetite is so great that she needs a lot of love. Only in this way and that kind of affection can she fill in one or two. Unless you can find a new way to meet her emotional needs, she wants to go from place to place, and you can't stop or stop her.
You know what she did outside, and she also knows that as long as you don't break the bond between your husband and wife, it won't end. So there are some things that she keeps from you, and you also cooperate by pretending to be confused. How long can such a willingness to fight and a willingness to suffer last? You have already started to face difficulties. After all, you hope she belongs to you alone. Pain needs to be expressed. Otherwise, the other party thinks you don't care, and their behavior becomes increasingly borderless. If you become addicted to stealing, it's difficult to quit.
If you are determined to adjust, here are some tips for you: the first step is to calm her down. Only when she has too much free time can she have extra emotions to spare and make her schedule fuller, whether it's work or dating, with your husband and wife's interaction as the main focus; The second step is to reassure her and rearrange the living room at home, making it warm and lovely, making her nostalgic and not letting her thoughts go out again; The third step is to make her fall in love, which is also the most important step. As mentioned earlier, you can find a different way to get along with each other, making both parties comfortable and more adorable. The relationship is filled with honey and oil, and others naturally won't notice.
Finally, don't take chances. If you have already discovered something wrong, don't think the other party will self restrain. The principle to adhere to should not be compromised.
