Post Date December, 03 2023
We often say to live in the present, but how many people can really do it? Especially in the face of emergencies, when you are embarrassed, angry, and at a loss, such as when your husband has an affair, you have not had time to get angry. What should he do if he runs away from home?
First, try to meet him
He unexpectedly ran away from home, which shows that he was moved by the object of the affair. So, if you want to keep him or make a final confession for him, what should you think about to make him move? For example, if you divorce him, let him be honest with his girlfriend. For example, if the house is owned by him, you should withdraw voluntarily. In short, you should do everything possible to let him appear, and then you can have the opportunity to explain to him clearly. For such irresponsible people, you can only use extraordinary means in extraordinary times.
Secondly, try to control his consumption and use the power of his relatives to intervene
You try to control his consumption and disable all his bank cards. If you and he both have cards, try to go to the bank to freeze or change the password. Let him see how many days he can be free without economic support. At the same time, we should try to cut off his financial resources and leave him without reserve. At the same time, you should tell some of his closest relatives about this matter, let them try to persuade him and analyze the advantages and disadvantages. Let him go home with what. It's not proper to leave without saying so.
Third, if there are children, use them to make them turn around
Even if the husband changes his mind after marriage, if he has children, he will still have the possibility of turning back. You can find ways to contact him or ask the child to speak to him. Sometimes a child's words may be more effective than ten words you say. Because children are his flesh and blood after all, even if he is poor, he will not even recognize his own children. Growth is to put aside your willfulness and take responsibility. We often feel that what makes us respect is often those who dare to take responsibility and give up. If a person abandons his family and children, it is hard to imagine how he will lead a good life in the future?
Finally, tell him that you are ready to leave, and where the child should go
Sometimes if we are like men, men may not have so much freedom. Therefore, sometimes the reason why men do this is often because women are used to it. Now that a man has done his job, you might as well tell him that you also run away from home, and you don't care about the child. Then, how anxious he is, don't pay attention to him. Let him feel your mood in a different position. In fact, you still have to take care of the child. After all, the child is innocent. If two people fight, they can't ignore the child. The purpose of your doing this is to find the man first. What should you do next? Let it be!
