He was accused of cheating by his parents and left me out after returning to his family

My husband and I met through a friend's introduction. After three years of marriage, we became pregnant. The reason is that I have a weaker body. When the baby was half a year old, his husband attended a classmate's party and became entangled with a girl in his class. The other person was the girl he once liked, but he never caught up with him. Now that her husband's career is on the rise, that woman has taken a fancy to her husband instead. And he was also obsessed and came over to talk to me about divorce. I haven't had much trouble with him, I've been giving him time to deal with it.

His parents also intervened in this matter, defending me against injustice and severely reprimanding him. They tangled for a long time before breaking up. It was his female classmate who proposed it. After breaking up, my husband has been unable to let go and often cannot integrate into the family. "Our relationship is in a cold war period, and when I speak to him, he is also very dismissive, not to mention sexual matters between husband and wife.". I think he misunderstood me. After all, his parents scolded him, and I didn't command him from behind. From his cheating until now, I have hardly quarreled with him, but he has squeezed all his resentment onto me.

We have been living in separate rooms for over a month now. "The child is young, and it's really hard for me to feed milk powder in the middle of the night alone.". His mother-in-law reminded him more than once that he should focus on his family and not be emotional. He couldn't listen. "Our relationship is just like this, and he told me that for the sake of the child, he won't divorce me or easily cheat on me, just hoping that I leave enough space for him.".

"I have completely lost confidence in him. Over the past three years, he has been very considerate to me, and now the relationship has become so deadlocked that I no longer want to count on him.". I want to be independent and take care of my children. What should I do? Please help me.

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

Hello. Judging from your account, his situation belongs to the situation of broken cans and falling. His cheating behavior was revealed, and his parents accused him of being humiliated. He broke the jar and threw his anger at you in the form of cold violence.

A man who is unfaithful demands too much face. Even if he knows he is wrong, he is not willing to bow his head and admit his mistake. His inner desire continues to expand, preferring external stimulation and temptation, and the third person is still the girl he originally loved. Nowadays, the other party voluntarily delivers the door, and out of face and pride, it is easy for him to accept the other party and satisfy his unfinished wish.

Suggestion: If he does not actually contact a third party, put down his stature and take the initiative to save the marriage. In addition, we should quickly become independent. Only when you have the ability to live can the other party not see you clearly. Learn to manage money, seize economic assets, and prevent excessive spending. Expand your circle of friends, don't focus all your attention on your husband. If you have a space of your own for each other, life can be much easier.