Having a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend, I feel like she no longer has me in her heart

1 Keyword: Feeling like a spare tire

Q: # Crow loves Q&A # Big, chasing a girl for almost a year. I have confessed before, but was politely rejected. Later on, I kept in touch with her and she always responded. Even when I asked her out, I came out, but when I was busy with work, I didn't come out. When I made some ambiguous statements, she politely refused. I had a separate appointment to have dinner, watch movies, and watch night scenes, but there was no upgrade relationship. Sometimes, I would send her something, and she expressed that she was very moved. I feel like she doesn't want to be with me for the rest of her life, but she doesn't want to break up with me. Our junior high school classmates are both in their twenties and eighties, and I'm not a spare tire. Seeking great help, how to upgrade the relationship with the spare tire!

Answer: Spare tire: refers to a spare tire that can be replaced when the original tire is damaged.

Yes, the text on the encyclopedia is both heartbreaking and gives people a glimmer of hope: I may have the opportunity to 'take up the job'~

But in fact, there are two types of spare tires. One is that they think you are really good and if they don't meet their current boyfriend, they will be with you. The other is that in the eyes of women, spare tires only satisfy their vanity and enjoy occasional care gifts, proving that they are still very beautiful.

And brother, in your current situation, you have been chasing after me for almost a year, and you two are also almost thirty. Why are you still playing such a family pursuit game? Or do you think this is just your own solo act?

Yes, there must be one party in love who loves each other a little more, but at the moment, your relationship with her has far separated from pursuit, and even if we end up together, the relationship will become imbalanced. Are you planning to spend your youth on a woman who is so appetizing to you?

2 keywords: Feeling like she doesn't have me in her heart

Q: # Crow Love Q&A # Hello Crow, I am a loyal fan of you. Five months ago, I made a girlfriend and met her through blind dates. At first, chatting and everything was okay, but later I realized that she wasn't particularly willing to chat with me. Every night, I usually sent her messages and she didn't respond very much. However, every time we met, we chatted very well. She sometimes took the initiative to ask for hugs from me, but she always ignored my feelings. For example, when we were dating, if she had something unexpected, she wouldn't take the initiative to tell me, But she won't tell me until I ask her. I mentioned breaking up with her about this matter, but every time she contacts me, she probably didn't treat me like a spare tire. We kissed, stroked, and mostly did it except for not pushing. But why do I just feel like she doesn't have me in her heart?

Answer: Men learn how to love, and women also have their own scheming advisors and toxic chicken soup. It is more likely that this girl has read some articles on how to deal with men, practiced them on you, and found that the effect is still good. You have already started to feel reluctant to part with her, and if she doesn't reply to messages, you become anxious and anxious to know why she always stands up to you.

Since the relationship with the girl is relatively smooth, as long as the other person is not dating multiple men at the same time, you can also go the other way and calm down. It doesn't matter if you don't reply to the news. If you go to other things, make her realize that her little tricks have failed, and realize that you are equally happy without her at night. To fill her heart and elevate herself, I believe she will put down her disguise.

3 keywords: In the Cold War with girls

Q: # Crow Love Question # Crow is Big. My girlfriend and I haven't had any conversation lately. We were together for three years before, but we broke up due to many issues. Later, we also focused on our family's love studies and learned a little about it, which made her attracted to me again. However, now she basically doesn't chat more than ten times on WeChat every day. She works in a city 60 kilometers away from me, and in the past few days, she has said many hurtful things due to not being calm, Now in the Cold War, solving

Answer: So, brother, you will find that the core of love studies is to improve yourself, make yourself more attractive, and become more masculine.

And brother, you and your sister have no topic to talk about, which is just a superficial phenomenon. The core is that you two are not together and in a state of semi long-distance love. I have emphasized many times before. Is it because of love or because we cannot find a better one or because we have been together for too long and are unwilling to change this state? Is it possible to move to the same city? Can you both consider each other more? Strengthen face-to-face contact.

4 keywords; Can't make an appointment with a girl

Q: Da Da, I have known girls on blind dates for almost half a year. I usually meet them two or three times a month, and when I make an appointment, I invite them to eat or watch movies. However, later on, she doesn't come out, saying she owes me too much and doesn't dare to come out. She also wants to pay me back, and so on. She hasn't been able to make any appointments lately. She also told me that she has been on blind dates recently. Do you think I have any hope? What should I do to make her my girlfriend

Answer: Brother, please give me a definition first. What is a couple? What is the difference between a couple and an ordinary friend?

It is obvious that apart from physical contact and kissing, the feelings and experiences of dating couples together are different from those of meeting ordinary friends.

I believe brother, you don't have a clear understanding of sexual interaction, including how to date, always eating and watching movies, which can be very boring for anyone. In the future, you can try new dating methods, such as going hiking or fishing for outings.

And when dating, you can't just spend money. You can try asking a girl to treat you to a dessert or something, and it definitely won't make a woman feel that being with you is a state of debt.