Introduction: Nowadays, it is no longer a traditional society, and it is no longer subject to the mandatory irrigation concept of the Four Books and Five Classics. Everyone is doing what they want to do, but in this social atmosphere, the divorce rate is slowly rising, which not only leads to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, but also the disintegration of the family.
Let's take a look together. What are the six standards for high-quality sexual life?
High quality sexual living standards
1. Sex and Love Connection
Instead of separating "sex" from "love," they insist that the "mind" occupies a central position in sexual life and other fields. They view sexual life as an extremely important part of a couple's relationship, and they are willing and committed to sexual satisfaction for themselves and each other.
2. Learn to say "no"
Some women often say "no" to their husbands' sexual demands. Couples who have a harmonious sexual life, both of whom focus on meeting each other's sexual needs, will try to overcome their original resistance and learn to say "no".
3. Close the gap
Couples who have a good sexual life may also encounter the problem of "gender gap", but because their relationship is filled with a spirit of mutual satisfaction that is considerate of each other, they will actively fill the gap that may exist.
4. Dare to talk about sex
There has long been a taboo against talking about sex in society. Couples who have a successful sexual life never regard each other as divine beings who can read the minds of others, but rather open their hearts to frank discussions about their sexual life. They also understand that wishing the other party or both parties to jointly perform a new behavior, action, posture, or manner does not mean that there has been any mistake in the past.
5. No right or wrong
Couples who have a harmonious and happy sexual life understand that there should be no absolute standards that everyone should abide by in sexual life, and there is no question of what is right and what is wrong. As long as both parties are satisfied, it is sexual happiness.
6. Wonderful balance
In sexual life, each party needs to give and receive, and both men and women need to serve and receive each other's services. A wonderful balance of mutual pleasure, initiative, and complete giving and receiving between couples will make their sexual lives always enjoyable for both parties.
Six Hazards of Repetitive Life
Repetitive sex is not only harmful to health, but also difficult to make the pleasure of sexual life flow in small streams. Both spouses (male and female friends) should pay attention to it.
1. Due to the continuous and repetitive occurrence of sexual impulses, both men and women will increase the burden on the sexual control nerve center and sexual organs. As a result of frequent tiredness, extreme events will reverse, and on the contrary, it will cause sexual function decline, leading to "premature aging" of sexual function.
2. For both men and women, it can cause significant physical consumption, and over time, it will inevitably lead to a low physical condition. Immediately, it will also affect the mental state, and even the ability to think, remember, and analyze will deteriorate.
3. Men often have repetitive sexual activities. Due to repeated and persistent hyperemia of the sexual organs, diseases such as prostatitis and seminal vesiculitis can be induced, which not only cause perineal discomfort, low back pain, but also lead to blood semen. Women often have repetitive sexual life, and their sexual organs are always in a hyperemic state, which can induce pelvic congestion, the so-called pelvic congestion syndrome, causing discomfort such as low back pain and heavy lower body.
4. Regardless of gender, during repeated sexual activity, the level of sexual satisfaction during the second or third or fourth sexual activity is lower than that of the previous one, which can easily lead to psychological impact, believing that there is a problem with one's sexual ability, and ultimately leading to sexual dysfunction induced by psychological and mental factors.
5. Men have a non reaction period after sex, which means that there is a period of time after sexual intercourse when they no longer respond to sexual stimulation. Frequent and repeated sexual activity can prolong the non reaction period and easily lead to sexual dysfunction.
6. Men often have repetitive sexual activities, which can prolong the time of ejaculation, because the occurrence time of ejaculation during the second sexual activity is definitely longer than that of the first, which buries the potential for sexual dysfunction such as impotence, non ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and lack of sexual pleasure in the future.