Post Date December, 03 2023
The question is indescribable. Generally speaking, couples between the ages of 20 and 30, 3-5 times a week; Couples aged 31 to 40, 3-4 times a week; Couples aged 41 to 50, 2-3 times a week; Couples aged 51 to 55, 1-2 times a week; Couples aged 56 to 60 have an average of once a week.
Generally speaking, the frequency of * * is inversely proportional to age, meaning that the older one is, the less sexual activity they have. Most readers are aware of these situations. Every couple is a unique combination, and their situation varies greatly from one another.
There are physiological differences between men and women, even if they are of the same sex, there are individual differences. People have many differences in age, personality, physique, and profession, so the frequency of sexual intercourse between different couples varies greatly. Due to factors such as climate, environment, illness, and work, even for the same couple, the frequency of sexual intercourse often changes.
The number of times mentioned above is only a rough statistical figure, and it may not be abnormal if it is higher or lower than these numbers. People are understandably worried that indulgence can harm their health.
Many newspapers and books list examples of ancient emperors indulging in physical harm and rarely living to the age of 80 or above. But what is' indulgence '?
Undoubtedly, many ancient emperors indulged in physical harm and loss of life. These emperors not only seek and abuse aphrodisiacs too frequently for their lust, but also seek and abuse aphrodisiacs from various sources. These drugs containing male hormones or elements such as lead often damage sexual function and harm the body. Therefore, some newspapers and magazines often use these materials to scare people, consciously or unconsciously, by using those emperors to explain the problem.
If both spouses have good health, strong sexual desire, and no discomfort after having sex, then the frequency of sexual activity far exceeds the general statistics, which is not necessarily called "indulgence" or "harm". Because in general, sexual activity between couples is mostly naturally regulated. This "indulgence harms the body" theory is a one-sided view of sex as a tool for health preservation and longevity.
Of course, a happy and harmonious sexual life plays a very important role in the physical and mental health of couples and prolonging their lifespan. However, this refers to paying attention to sexual health and disease prevention, including the use of various sexual techniques and the correct use of Yin Yang complementary methods. Under the influence of feudal superstition, the unidirectional approach of "collecting yin and supplementing yang" replaced "complementary yin and yang", and "consolidating essence" and "returning essence to replenish the brain" replaced "cherishing essence"; In this way, the correct approach to achieve health and wellness goals is to replace harmonious and normal sexual activity with "fixing" and "returning" the essence of the male body through sexual activity that is not * * * or even non-existent. The fallacies such as "one drop of semen, ten drops of blood", "labor and lust damage one's life", and "loss of semen damages one's body" have also emerged, and this kind of ignorance has ruled the people of our country for hundreds of years.
In the eyes of many men, the more frequent the frequency of sexual activity, the more proof of one's sexual ability and display of one's "virility". They strive to meet their wife's demands, hoping to prove their strength through her sexual excitement. Their repeated sexual pleasure over and over again throughout the night is more satisfying than psychological satisfaction. They received the only comfort from having such a glorious history. On the contrary, their actions have reduced the quality of their sexual life. Because the shorter the time between ejaculations, the less semen ejaculates. The more repetitions in the short term, the more likely it is to cause complete infertility and further decrease sexual pleasure.
A harmonious and fulfilling sexual life refers to both men and women achieving sexual pleasure and psychological satisfaction, not just in the pursuit of sexual pleasure itself. Some middle-aged and young couples only have sex three or two times a week, but both parties have already felt very satisfied. It should be said that these couples have a very harmonious sexual life.
The number of times men pursue sex is also due to some misconceptions they have about it. They believe that the more women demand, the better. However, this view is not comprehensive. Generally speaking, although women can achieve several orgasms in one or several sexual encounters, the pleasure they often experience from the first orgasm is more intense. Endless stimulation can actually reduce the woman's sensitivity. Some women request a second or even third sexual intercourse, often due to the first or second sexual intercourse failing to achieve satisfactory orgasm, so they hope to receive compensation in the second or even third sexual intercourse.
Some men also believe that every time they make sexual demands, women never refuse, and mistakenly believe that women have such needs. Little do they know that these women are fulfilling their obligations, and they cooperate as many times as their husbands need them. When their obligations are fulfilled, their hearts are at ease. They believe that after having sex with their husbands, their psychological security increases and their doubts about their husbands disappear. May people treat sex correctly and derive pleasure and warmth from it.
