Post Date December, 03 2023
Becoming Your Ideal Object
If someone asks you what you really want from your partner, you may spout a long list of descriptions. But in the eyes of the Leeds, a wonderful marriage relationship should first start with changing oneself. To satisfy the other person, the first step is to change yourself and strive to become the 'perfect image' in your heart, "Lilo said." I always think about the difference between my behavior and the best couple in my heart. Once I can convince myself to constantly improve, it's easy to see differences between the two
After an argument, count before speaking
Lilo said that whenever she gets angry, she always says to her husband, "Don't talk to me yet, let me count to 100." Counting can prevent people's anger from growing and prevent further arguments.
Bravely speak out your demands
If something makes you feel unhappy, the best solution is to speak up. Of course, different expressions of the same words lead to vastly different emotions. We never go out to eat "and" I want to go out to eat "have different effects. The former implies resentment, while the latter expresses one's own wishes. Gree believes that when expressing demands, one should use a positive tone and try to start with "I hope" and "can I. If we could add another sentence 'dear', the positive effect would definitely double.
