Honest children sometimes use their knowledge to attack me, after they feel really safe. This brave conflict makes me know what children can see and feel. I also have the opportunity to guide them out of dangerous misunderstandings through discussion and explanation.
Once, I was surrounded by a group of boys. At that time, we were talking about a 13-year-old girl giving birth to a child. I said that adolescent girls should pay attention to self-protection. But I haven't finished yet. A man objected that adolescent girls like to be raped. As soon as the voice fell, several men supported him. They said that they had seen such a statement in books, and some CD films also said the same.
They. I know there must be some misunderstanding, so let them explain in detail. They mentioned girls' sexual fantasies. I immediately understood that they were confusing sexual fantasy with sexual reality. I told them that both girls and boys have some sexual fantasies. But just as boys' sexual dreams cannot represent boys' sexual reality, girls' sexual fantasies are not equal to their real wishes. No girl wants to be violated. Rape tramples on the dignity of women and is hated by girls.
Considering that they mentioned the film, I played the momentum again. Tell them that there are distorted descriptions of women in pornographic films and novels. Those descriptions are unreliable and never equal to the reality of life. Soon someone sent out such a sigh. I suddenly felt that someone had dabbled in relevant content. It seems to be timely. If there is such misunderstanding, it may cause new tragedies and may also affect the future communication with women.
Before the beginning of the class, I felt that there were obvious differences between men and women in their understanding of sex. A girl's attitude is avoidable. I once saw a girl in Grade One repeatedly told her companion not to read the first part of the art book × Page! Because there are paintings of naked women. The companion really hid the book. But at the same time, a group of boys were fighting for the painting at the back of the classroom. This contrasting scene left a strong impression on me. It turns out that there is such a big gap between male and female students in their understanding of sex in their youth!
In the class of senior two students, my point was confirmed. The sexual knowledge of boys can explain homosexual behavior and clearly define sexual behavior. Girls ask me quietly whether I will kiss and get pregnant. Most girls are surprised to say: Why do boys know so much? In the concept of girls, boys should also be ignorant. If there is no public communication, all girls will think that boys are as "pure" as they are. It is no wonder that many girls appear to be out of proportion and lack of sense of protection in communication, because they do not know what the boy is thinking.