Post Date December, 03 2023
"My best friend has been married for six years, and the couple have always been very harmonious. The structure of" two big and one small "is solid as a rock.".
Until one weekend, she had nothing to do with her husband and decided to take a look at the car. After the thirties of the year, it's time to become a decent person driving an intermediate car.
As the two chatted with the car salesman, her husband began to consult the loan plan in great detail. Her friend inadvertently asked, "Is that zero interest rate loan for only one year?"?
Her husband glanced at her impatiently, "Do you have any money?"? It means 36 months is still a bit nervous. Why consider 12 months.
Her best friend suddenly felt ashamed. Looking at the sales person's smiling eyes, she felt like she was instantly stripped of all her clothes by her closest lover and stood naked in the showroom full of intermediate cars, becoming a showcase of "I am poor.".
After turning around and leaving, I followed up with my husband and uttered two dirty words: "I earn no less than you. Is it interesting that you say that to me?"?
It was just a sesame seed sized matter, but it made her seriously consider for the first time whether it was necessary to live with this person? Like most women in this city, her best friend has never enjoyed the happiness of spending men's money happily. She only knows how to buy and wear flowers herself, but finds that even so, she may not win the respect of men.
There was no problem at all, but in fact, I can live without you and I, and you're still so disrespectful. Is it necessary for me to make do with it? She was screaming for a divorce on the phone.
In "Charlotte's Worries," a man without money leads a poor life. He managed to save some money and gather some equipment to go to a classmate gathering. The scenery is beautiful, but his wife wants to come up and reveal what kind of poverty you are, what kind of wealth you come here to pretend to be, and how hard it is to live in your own home, shaking like a garbage can.
In "Lost in Hong Kong", a wealthy man leads a decent life and makes a splash at a classmate's party, but returns home. As a visiting son-in-law, except for his wife, his father-in-law, sister-in-law, sister-in-law, and sister-in-law all want to give him a bit of anger. They change their ways to prevent this son-in-law from being a decent person, and in every place, from tea restaurants to infertility clinics, they have to embarrass him.
I'm so angry. I'm already miserable in middle age. Why should I be humiliated from inside out?
I understand my best friend, as well as Charlotte and Xu Lai. "All elderly people who live a miserable married life have actually reached the most tedious moment in their lives. Their ideals have long been dashed, and the future can be seen at a glance. Those in their thirties who are still poor, still dependent on their wives to support them, and still rely on their father-in-law's nose to breathe, know better than anyone how much they have failed.".
So the only way to be happy is for a close loved one to save face at any time, so that life doesn't seem so fragmented.
In a domestic film played by Ge You, he accompanied Xu Fan proudly into a famous clothing store. Xu Fan nervously said, "I don't have money to buy it.". Ge You curled his lips: What are you afraid of? Try it without paying. He accompanied Xu Fan through a fashion model addiction in the store, nothing more than satisfying a woman's vanity. Even after thirty years as a poor person, there was a moment when he wanted to experience the life of a wealthy person.
In the middle age, when ideals were long gone, face was all the mysteries of living for middle-aged people.
When Ma Dongmei was in the beginning of the movie, I actually supported Charlotte's divorce from her. What's the meaning of such a day, even if she loves me?
The divorce scandal with her best friend ended with her husband calling her an apology fee of 30000 yuan.
Why have we suddenly entered an era where everything can be done as long as we have money? It's just that only with more and more money can a weak life look less bleak and full of face. Only money can make these middle-aged people younger, more elegant, and more respectable. Then I was quickly identified among a group of mediocre middle school classmates, and I did well.
"If you have a good face, you will be satisfied. In a tired life, you don't want to investigate the flaws in your face for a long time.".
