Post Date December, 03 2023
The Jinling Evening News published today that "a girl was run over when she was drunk and killed while her boyfriend didn't take her home." It mentioned that Jihai let her drunken girlfriend cross the road by herself because she didn't take her home while her girlfriend Li Xue was drinking. As a result, her girlfriend was run over by a car. Later, Li Xue's parents sued her boyfriend for legal responsibility. Although the court in this case announced Li Xue's death, did Jihai have any responsibility, However, it also makes people reflect on the mistakes in love, such as drunken men who don't send home, and men should never make them. So what are the mistakes in love that should never be made?
1、 Crazy courtship
In love, there are always people who are single lovesickness. They are always wishful thinking and completely disregard each other's feelings. Although they will not cause great mistakes, if they do not get good psychological guidance, it is very easy to show a kind of extreme irrational behavior, which is easy to cause irreparable damage to the object of single lovesickness, and will also lead to their own doom.
A small editor's advice: As the saying goes, it is not sweet to fight with force. Love cannot be begged, let alone forced. In love, once men fall in love, they should try to divert their attention and find new emotional sustenance, so as to dilute the pain of love, such as participating in some sports and leisure collective activities, and try to get themselves out of the emotional vortex.
2、 Eager to succeed in love
Although "flash marriage" and "naked marriage" are very common nowadays, not all girls can adapt to it, especially girls who have no love experience or are not ready for love. It is very difficult for them to accept a strange man they are not familiar with. As men, they must not be impatient and eager to succeed in love.
Small editor's advice: When starting to communicate with girls, it is best to start with a good sense of trust. Don't take an extremely aggressive and inevitable attitude at the beginning. Don't point to "do you want to be with me" every move, and don't deliberately create a kind of fickle romance, which will bring girls into an ambiguous atmosphere. If everything is too fast, it will only scare girls away. So we can start with friends, step by step, step by step to understand each other and integrate into each other's life.
3、 Get love in disguise
When a man likes a woman, he usually wants to make a good impression on her. I hope she can also like you and be impressed with you. I hope she thinks you have all the important qualities like Prince Charming in her dream. However, what you show to the other person is not a complete self. You just hide your shortcomings temporarily and let yourself gradually disappear under the mask, However, there will always be an outbreak in a long time, and once this illusion is broken, it usually means that she will leave you, hurting both others and herself, and the loss outweighs the gain.
Xiaobian's advice: If you want to harvest a healthy and happy love and hope to be accepted by the other party, you must put away the perfect image of "public self" and take a risk to reveal your true side. In front of your lover, you should not only show your best side, but also naturally reveal your "bad side" or "not so good side".
Summary: In the process of love, there are many details that need to be carefully noticed by the man who is the aggressor. Only by handling every little thing in life well, adding up a little makes a lot, being honest with full love and persevering with each other, can we always achieve good love!
