Post Date December, 03 2023
Four words that one cannot say in life
Living in the world is like a busy spider, desperately spreading its network of relationships, because friends are wealth, and friends are investment. For this reason, some people can have many friends, while others do not have a sincere friend. In fact, for those who do not have friends, in addition to not paying their sincerity, the more important thing is not to speak. So, how many do you know about the four sentences that a person shouldn't say?
Complaining when ignored
Remember, in this world, the people who really don't ignore you are because they care about you. Once they don't care about you one day, you're really nothing in their eyes. For this, be grateful to those who value you. For those who ignore you, it may be because you hurt them, or because you haven't done enough, and others don't need to care too much about your feelings.
For this reason, whether it's being ignored by a loved one or colleague, it's no use complaining. Instead, show them the spirit of desperate Sanlang and show them strength.
Talk nonsense after being frustrated
Living, it is impossible to have smooth sailing. When frustrated, many people like to daydream. Therefore, under the constraints of pessimism, it is easy to make neurotic and random guesses. Let's call this state of speech nonsense. Perhaps for oneself, it means venting, but for the listener, it can generate inexplicable pressure and may feel that you are messing around.
For this reason, after being frustrated, the best attitude towards life is not to vent, but to self examine and objectively analyze the reasons for your frustration. Remember, in this world, it is the self that can save oneself, and all others can do is persuade.
Jealousy of others gossiping
Jealousy is a stinking habit carried by many people. In addition to being acerbic, at least so far, I haven't found any benefits that jealousy can bring to the body and mind. The most obvious manifestation is hatred of officials and rich people. It's really unnecessary to do this. First of all, ask yourself what happens if you become an official one day, and what happens if you become rich.
Looking at how many people in this world are arguing indiscriminately against officials and wealthy people, we can see how many people are living in confusion. I really have the ability to make myself a big official and a wealthy person, but you have to think about it. Do you have that virtue? Hopefully, by then, you can use your conscience, power, and strength to save more people around you who need help.
Talk crazy when affirmed
The affirmation of others to you is a word of praise that you have indeed done well in a certain field, and the world needs to commend you. However, don't be arrogant and lose yourself because of the affirmation of others to you. Excessive fanaticism will only make more people hate you and stay away from you. Remember, besides your own efforts, there are also many people's support to help you achieve success. I believe that intelligent people understand the principle that water can carry a boat, but also can wreck it.
