At first, men and women make two strangers become the most intimate lovers because they can attract each other. But when they are together, as the time of communication grows stronger, they know more about each other, and the contradictions that will arise at this time also increase. Some couples will even have some qualitative changes to this relationship as time changes. For men, If their girlfriend has the following characteristics, it will definitely make men shy away. Although men say they like novelty, they will also worry about women when they have these characteristics.
Six characteristics that men are most afraid of women
1: The phone and message never stop
When some girls talk about love, they will be like detectives, and they will take three meals to greet them, and some of them will be more exaggerated. The typical content of the call is nothing more than the boring content of "What are you doing?" "Where are you?". In other words, boys and girls have different brain structures and different ideas about how often to contact. For boys, this excessive concern is not love but control at best.
2: Strong desire to marry
Some marriageable women will be very urgent about "getting married". It seems that there is no store after the village. They will completely forget that this will only scare away their partners. For those men who don't want to get married that much, this is a heavy girl. Girls who may not speak clearly but often talk about the happiness of getting married well and having their own family, but marriage is a very important thing for boys. Since then, he has become the pillar of the family and must be responsible for the family, so we need to think carefully, and this constant hint is only putting pressure on them.
3: Mom, not girlfriend
As the saying goes, what a man wants is his girlfriend, not his mother. Most of the girls who put this sentence in mind are happy. Some girls will take care of their boyfriends as their sons, such as what to eat for three meals or when they arrive at their boyfriends' home, they will wash their clothes and wash the toilet. As a popular saying on the Internet, it is not unreasonable to take your boyfriend as a son and be careful to ask for your daughter-in-law back from outside!
On the other hand, when you do these things, it means that your boyfriend is dirty or lazy, which is actually hurting their self-esteem. The most intelligent girl knows what it means to stop at the end of the day. Don't go if you feel disorderly or when you don't see it. You should know that doing too much will not do you any good.
4: association=marriage
It is a good thing to fall in love, and it is also necessary to go through communication before we know whether we can meet or not, and whether we can live together can enter the next stage. The so-called ideal object is different from person to person. If you just marry for the sake of marriage, there will be other problems in the future, girls! Don't worry about getting married, please think twice!
5: Negative female
In addition to his negative thoughts, he is also a complainer. Some girls complain about their work and their boss and colleagues when they see their boyfriends. This kind of girl is really scary. My boyfriend is also very tired at work, and at the same time, he also needs to calm your mood. It's really too long for anyone. No matter how much love you have, it will be worn to zero or just say that your boyfriend's mood is also very bad.
6: Expect too much from the other party
Sometimes the appropriate pressure is to help, but too much will only make people want to escape. It's easy for a girl to put all her expectations on her boyfriend when she loves someone too much. Or if you have a fantasy attack, you think your boyfriend should surprise or give gifts on Valentine's Day or Christmas or birthday, and then you will be mad when you don't have time. This excessive expectation of the other half is also a kind of heavy women.
Four types of "women who are easy to be hacked"
1: I like to make my boyfriend jealous
When your favorite boyfriend or husband is jealous for his own sake, it will bring people some pleasure. However, it is not allowed to make a boyfriend or husband jealous by deliberately uploading a group photo with a male friend. When the other party is unhappy, it is possible to deliberately travel with other women for revenge, and some of them really develop into an affair. Therefore, it is also necessary to pay attention to the behavior of making the other party overly jealous.
2: Love like a little devil
People who use their love skills to lure men like playing games should pay attention. Because for the other party, you may just be a part of his game. If it is a game, as long as you win, you will want to challenge the next game. In other words, even when it comes to communication, the other party may have started to look for the next goal during the communication.
3:2 There is an obvious master-slave relationship between people, and they are in the lower position
The other party the final say everything. You must cook for him at home, and when you eat out, it depends on his mood. Such a complete master-slave relationship must also be noted.
It is very dangerous when there is a master-slave relationship with the other party and you are in a subordinate position. This is because your attitude towards him will always be in a "state of readiness". People's charm is produced under the most natural conditions. If you let the other party find that he is always in the state of cooperation, the time with you will become very boring for him.
In addition, when you have the idea that "you don't match him", you may show humility. In this way, he may feel that you do not have your own personality, and naturally will be interested in other women, which will lead to an affair.
4: Always suspected that he had an affair
It is easy to feel uneasy, and people who often want to find out the signs of the other party's affairs are also not good. If you have nothing to do, you should observe the other party's words and deeds or confirm the other party's journey. Gradually, for the other party, the time with you will become the source of pain. Over time, you will feel tired of the relationship with you, and naturally fall into the arms of other women.
Conclusion: If the above situation happens to women, men will definitely give up on you. No matter men or women, they don't want their freedom to be controlled, which makes them feel tired. Although you two are one, you should not interfere with your personal freedom. But the premise here is to make your other half feel at ease. Women's sixth sense is more sensitive, and they are also more sensitive. When men are a little agitated, they can't hide them, So the best protection for women is to be self-confident. Of course, they will not become paranoid.