No matter how sweet you were before getting married, your life after marriage is vastly different from before. What is the outcome of two people's marriage? It requires the joint efforts of both people. The destruction of a relationship cannot be caused by just one or two things. Today, let's take a look at a few things to remember about murdering a happy marriage.
1. Secretly contacting the ex
A male netizen stated that he discovered that his wife secretly contacted her ex boyfriend and even invited him out for dinner. This behavior caused him to instantly lose trust in her, and he also lacked the patience to continue maintaining a happy marriage. In fact, whether it's the man or the woman secretly contacting their ex, this behavior is seen by many people as betrayal of themselves. If their heart is really on themselves, how can they contact their ex?
2. Sexual disharmony
Couples who have a harmonious sexual life also have a relatively harmonious life. If their sexual life is not harmonious, it can even destroy a marriage. They can't just live a life without sex like this. Some people's sexual disharmony is not due to male impotence, but rather their lack of awareness of the definition of perfect sexual life.
Experts say that a perfect sexual life is mutually pleasing, and achieving orgasm together with mutual assistance is not only satisfying oneself, but also satisfying the other party. From this perspective, it is wrong for many men to believe that ejaculation is the end of their sexual life, and the key point is to satisfy the other party as well.
3. Always praising other members of the opposite sex
It is true that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but it should be remembered that in marriage, one mountain cannot have two tigers. This applies not only to women, but also to men. Always praising other members of the opposite sex in front of their partner will inevitably make them think that they have many negative qualities, which will make their partner appreciate others so much. Over time, it can affect the happiness of marriage.
4. Disrespect the other party
Regardless of who is the main source of income in the family, it is important to respect each other. Some men believe that they have made more money and can instruct their wives to do this and that, which can make women feel unfair in marriage. The accumulation of time will certainly affect the happiness of marriage.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)