Post Date December, 03 2023
Sexual aversion is a persistent aversion to sexual activity or thoughts. This type of patient loses the sexual impulse at the beginning of normal marital life or refuses to accept sexual stimulation. Generally, mild symptomatic sexual aversion patients only exhibit low frequency of sexual activity or lack of interest in marital life, while typical severe patients exhibit various phenomena of normal sexual desire activation, such as kissing, hugging, touching, etc., which all exhibit pathological reactions such as anxiety, sweating, palpitations, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, etc. These patients are only in special circumstances, Sexual impulses can only be activated and strengthened, with only 1-2 couples living each year. Men can ejaculate, while women have orgasms. This disease can occur in both males and females, but is more common in females.
Generally speaking, there are several main reasons for male sexual aversion:
(1) Abnormal understanding of sex occurs in the early stages of adolescent development. If a boy has female breast development or severe acne on the face during adolescence, as well as psychological trauma related to sexual behavior.
(2) Some are caused by some issues in the life of married couples that have not been properly handled. For example, when the man requests to live a married life, the woman ignores it, and even demands that the man agree to certain exchange conditions, which over time leads to the man's aversion to sexual behavior.
(3) Some men are criticized for not being able to achieve orgasm due to rapid ejaculation, and suffer multiple setbacks in their mental state, leading to sexual aversion.
(4) Lack of sexual knowledge or influenced by religious superstitions, believing that sex is evil, consuming energy, and damaging health.
(5) The husband dislikes his wife from the bottom of his heart due to the long-term estrangement between the couple.
(6) Suffering from neurasthenia and genital diseases, suspected to be related to sexual behavior. Under the long-term influence of various factors mentioned above, the man may carry a heavy burden on his mind, form incorrect sexual concepts in his thoughts, and ultimately manifest in his indifference, disgust, and even disgust towards specific sexual behavior.
For a husband who suffers from sexual aversion, the wife should patiently and meticulously identify the psychological factors that contribute to his illness, try to correct his incorrect views on marital life, and pay attention to giving him more gentle and considerate care in daily life, and be more active in cooperating in marital life. When a husband experiences symptoms of sexual aversion, it is important to understand and not harshly blame them, as this can worsen the condition of sexual aversion.
Therapeutic aversion mainly relies on psychological therapy. After taking the above measures, the wife can also use the effective method of "sexy concentration training" to treat her husband's sexual aversion:
Step 1: Strictly abstain from sexual activity for a period of time, and engage in emotional communication between couples, such as discussing work, study, and family matters, to ensure a harmonious relationship between the couple. Then gradually adapt to mutual physical exposure and begin skin contact and touch. The purpose of touching is not for sexual arousal or desire, but for emotional communication.
Step 2: The wife caresses the husband's entire body and observes if he feels unwell after caressing. If he feels unwell, he can pause.
Step 3: The wife caresses the husband's genitals, and if the husband feels unwell, he can pause; If there is no discomfort, appropriate stimulation can make the husband's sexual organs erect.
Step 4: When the husband has no adverse reactions under the caress of his wife, the couple can switch from a non sexual relationship to sexual intercourse.
During this period, the wife should warmly encourage her husband's improvement in certain sexual desires; Husbands can also tell their wives about their sexual requirements. When the husband experiences discomfort symptoms, do not force yourself to act, but pause and provide comfort.
