Post Date December, 03 2023
Everything goes through a process of quantitative to qualitative change, and marital relationships are no exception. When a marriage experiences a passionate love affair, it should be at the bottom of the cold war. No matter how much a loving couple once was, they are always vulnerable to love, and then settle down in the process of disputes, precautions, cracks, and breakdowns.
Disputes
In the early stages of recognition, we always regarded our partner's shortcomings as advantages. Over time, we became increasingly dissatisfied with each other, until it turned into a dispute. However, considering family factors, they began to reconcile, but after the settlement, this scene reappeared. If the couple were both introverted, they would definitely be indifferent to each other in their hearts and would not argue on the surface. Such couples are even more fearful when they experience emotional disputes.
Alert
When there are more and more disputes between couples, there must be an invisible barrier between them that hinders their normal communication. They will have their own little secrets, afraid that the other party will know. In order to guard against each other, they are secretive about everything, like burglars, guarding against this humble and loving marriage.
Crack
Not all secrets can become true secrets, it always comes to light. Secret disclosure causes more serious disputes, which increases vigilance; As a result, a vicious circle was formed, and cracks finally appeared. "They didn't want to live together, so they started their separation career. Even if they were forced together, there would never be intimate behavior between husband and wife.".
Rupture
When the rift is too big to be repaired, or when the relationship is completely broken, it will definitely end up in the following three outcomes: going through divorce procedures and going their separate ways; In order to live, not divorce, but just make do with their lives, in fact, the relationship between husband and wife creates a real existence; "If you don't make me feel better, you won't be able to live comfortably. They won't divorce and just torture each other like this.".
Editor's suggestion:
The road is chosen by yourself, not paved for you by others. When a road reaches its end. Try to give the other person a "way to live". In life, you can spend both good and bad times, so when it's time to let go, let go. Draw a complete ending to your once wonderful love.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
