A long life together is the original intention of all couples and the most perfect result of marriage life. But it is simple to say, but difficult to do. There are many examples of couples "giving up halfway". If you want to achieve the result of a long life together, you must master the secret of getting along in marriage.
Learn to give
I have a male friend. He has a very careful wife. Every time the festival or his birthday comes, he will bring him a surprise or "magic" birthday gift. Every time, the male friend will feel very happy. But he has never bought a gift for his wife for so many years after marriage, which makes his wife feel very disappointed. In fact, he only enjoys the feeling of "being loved", but does not know how to give the other party "love", which is selfish. In marriage life, "you have me, I have you" is the highest level of marriage life.
Husband and wife are independent individuals and one-on-one freedom. Don't think about how to change each other, don't think about letting each other accompany you all day, and don't be paranoid about thinking "you are mine", which will turn your love nest into a cage that traps each other. Therefore, husband and wife should adjust each other to a moderate space, not only to be together, but also to be alone with each other. In the soil of marriage, let the two trees of personality grow freely and naturally reap the fruits of happiness.>> The insurmountable bottom line of husband and wife quarrel
Love each other
Every man and woman has the need to love and be loved. The mutual love between husband and wife is revealed in the details of life. When he comes back from work, you pour him a cup of hot water; When she is too tired to lie on the sofa and sleep, you cover her with quilts, and every bit of warmth, he will feel that only by collecting such a little bit of love, can husband and wife hold hands happily until old age.
Cherish each other
In reality, many people don't know how to cherish until they lose. Especially for men, they think that if they marry their wife into the family, they belong to themselves. So sometimes they don't know how to cherish their wife. For example, they ask the wife to do the chores of life for them like calling the nanny, or they roar at them if they are not good at cooking, or they take their anger out on their wife when they encounter something unpleasant outside. There are many such men in life. Maybe at first, the wife can bear it, and slowly he will alienate you, Until I leave this home.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)