Post Date December, 03 2023
1. Too young to get married, a little hasty in choice
People in their early twenties are not experienced enough and have more emotions than reason. Many people do not know what kind of spouse they need. The reason for getting married is often simple, or because the other party has a good family, or looks good, or has a stable job, or the other party has a good feeling for themselves, or the other party talks to make them happy, or even just because they have reached the age of marriage... After life, the relationship between the two parties is difficult to establish, and the seeds of divorce are sown by growing weariness; After middle age, they understand the type of opposite sex they need. When they meet, they often fall in love with each other and want to live together.
2. After the conditions are good, I feel that I have lost
Many men, when they first got married, had insufficient economic and social status, and could only choose girls with general conditions to marry. With the improvement of economic conditions and the improvement of social status, the level of women contacted is higher and higher, and the vision of men is also improved. The older the wife is, the more unpleasant she is, the more unwilling she is, which is the reason for divorce. Such men tend to marry women who are much younger than themselves.
3. The temptation of desire
Married for a long time, even the most beautiful spouse has a period of aesthetic fatigue; There is no new way for couples to live, which has become an obligation and a ritual. However, some novel and romantic ideas in the husband's mind could not be put into practice, resulting in a stalemate in the couple's life. Over time, he felt depressed and unsatisfied, and wanted to realize his own ideas and desires outside to find novelty and excitement. This is a particularly important inducement for extramarital affairs and one-night stands, and also an important inducement for divorce.
4. Inducement of age
After all, when you are young, you have to work hard. Marriage, having children, work and housing are all not easy. Couples are busy working hard. Instead of having no time and space, they will have a lot of tongues. Both sides have accumulated a lot of dissatisfaction and resentment against each other, but because of family management, they are temporarily suppressed and ignored. When the family burden falls and the children grow up, the more they look at each other, the more unpleasant they will be, Getting more and more bored. It's like someone said that he is particularly afraid of the night. When his wife touches him at night, he will get goose bumps all over and feel very uncomfortable. At this time, one side of the family will go outside for love and comfort, especially easy to cheat and divorce.
Every family has a difficult book to read. The reasons for divorce are very complex, not only from personal subjective feelings, but also related to moral, personal character and other issues; However, it is essentially an adult's independent choice, which can only be borne by both parties themselves. Of course, the increasing divorce rate tells us that nothing in the world can be determined. Even a person who has lived with you for more than 10 years may leave you without saying a word one day. Therefore, everyone needs to be kind to themselves and build their own capital - for example, do a good job in body, face and other maintenance work, and be a beautiful and full wife! Of course, in addition to this, the maintenance of private parts is also particularly important. For postpartum women or older women, shrinking the vagina is the most important thing, because only by grasping the man can you keep the man's heart! Therefore, at this time, you must take good care of yourself and treat yourself well.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
