Men are synonymous with being strong and strong, playing the role of strong individuals in society and life. Countless slogans such as' competition ',' work ',' earning money to support the family 'urge men to keep moving forward, while they bear immense pressure from various aspects and their mental health is worrying. Throughout a man's life, there are roughly four important turning periods, each of which has its own "ticking time bomb scenario" that may devastate men. So men should speak well when they suffer.
1. The restlessness of adolescence. In early adolescence (around 9-13 years old), men's sexual physiology and psychological development speed reach a peak, their cultural level gradually increases, and they have a strong sense of innovation. They like to try and accept new things, so they are highly susceptible to the influence of surrounding people and things. However, due to limited social experience, the ability to resist setbacks is often insufficient. In the middle and late stages of youth (around 13-18 years old), men face the pressure of complex interpersonal relationships adjustment, academic competition, and sometimes may even fall into the quagmire of early love.
2. Safety hazards during the prime of life. Men in their twenties and thirties gradually start a family and career, and their personal achievements and social status rise, but behind the scenes are full of vicissitudes. Many people are temporarily unable to afford a house or car, and they don't have many tickets in their pockets. It's difficult to stand at thirty, and they don't receive social recognition, which invisibly adds to their troubles. Families and society have higher expectations for men, so they are more likely to use incorrect methods such as silence or tantrums to regulate their emotions and are more prone to depression. This stage is also a high incidence period of substance abuse (such as alcoholism, drug abuse, etc.).
3. Neurological disorders during menopause. After the age of 50, some men experience clinical symptoms similar to female menopausal syndrome, such as neurological disorders, depression, memory loss, lack of concentration, fatigue, insomnia, hot flashes, sweating, and decreased sexual function, resulting in a decrease in quality of life.
4. The withering years of old age. After retirement, men gradually move away from the fame and fortune market, their social value decreases, and they inevitably experience feelings of loss and loneliness. They are increasingly worried about the economy and health, and exhibit symptoms such as suspicion and stubbornness. As people age, they become more conservative and find it difficult to accept new things. Their lifestyle habits remain unchanged, and once the environment changes, they are prone to adaptation barriers.