Post Date December, 03 2023
What about the wife cheating? There is no absolutely perfect marriage, so one cheating is not unforgivable. But it cannot be easily forgiven. Let me show you how to consider these points. Consider whether your heart can be balanced.
Generally speaking, if there is no "principled problem" between the husband and wife, they will often run in and repair well. If one party has a "principled problem", the marriage will face a severe test. Derailment is obviously a "matter of principle". Most of the affairs of the wife's infidelity will cause a great sense of imbalance in the husband's heart. This is the end of the matter. If you want to continue the marriage, this psychological adjustment is the first problem to be solved. If it can't be balanced, it will be hard to last.
Self-reflection
"A fly does not bite a seamless egg" is not rough. There must be problems in your marriage first, and then one person in the marriage will look for extramarital sustenance. So, I hope that the man who meets his wife cheating can calm down and think about whether he has neglected his wife's feelings for a long time in his marriage, or just love her according to his feelings, but what he gives is not what his wife wants. If you think about it this way, you may reduce some anger and resentment towards your cheating wife. At the same time, it will also make the wife feel that her husband can understand her and help to repair their feelings.
Reexamine your relationship
In the face of his wife's cheating, some men still love his wife deeply. Even if she did such a thing to hurt him, she still wanted to continue. However, it is worth considering whether the wife also loves her husband. A husband loves his wife more or more than a wife loves her husband. The husband needs to think about the love he gives her. Is it really the love she needs? If not, you also need to calm down and seriously think about whether you two really fit together.
See if the wife has a clear attitude towards marriage
The attitude of your wife after being discovered is the key to your consideration of saving your marriage. Whether she still loves you and wants to remake this marriage, maybe the two people need to have a thorough talk. If the husband wants to continue his marriage, he must first see his wife's clear attitude towards the marriage. Is her heart still in the marriage? Or at least willing to return to this marriage? This is very important. Otherwise, the husband's forgiveness will only give him another chance to get hurt.
