Men are visually aggressive animals, and their views on money, power, and sex are based on instinct. The only difference is only a matter of opportunity and courage. There is nothing wrong with ten men and nine flowers. However, flower heart does not necessarily mean taking action. After all, there are only a few people who take romance as their food. But in this era, in the depths of men's consciousness, love is not all, but sexual fantasies are inevitable. Under normal circumstances, a mature man will not take risks easily, but when both external and internal conditions permit, danger naturally prevails.
Marital burnout period
Characteristics of the danger period: Systematically speaking, marriage is somewhat like an "iron rice bowl," but where are there iron rice bowls now? Especially after the initial stage from love to marriage, when the other party's feelings reach a certain level, they are bound to enter a relatively flat period without too many ups and downs. The instinct of men to like the new and dislike the old is aroused, although the other party may not have the intention of separation or divorce.
Guidance: In fact, more extramarital affairs occur in newly recognized couples, and the old ashes of early lovers revive. Only when at least one partner's marriage turns on the red light is more likely to occur. In fact, marriage is about living, and the greatest strength in maintaining marriage is a sense of responsibility and mutual respect and need in life. Marriage really needs emotions, but there are two states when it comes to love, just like the difference between being a music fan and being a DJ.
Male depression
Characteristics of danger period: When a man is frustrated, what he most needs is to obtain affirmation from a woman, rely on her warmth to relax himself, and thereby rebuild self-confidence. "If this man lacks a partner who can sympathize with him, then at this point he is very eager to have other women" take advantage of the opportunity to enter, "and even casually find a woman he usually disdains to be close to.". If there is a woman who has always been interested in him to take the initiative to comfort him, it is easy for something to happen.
Guidance: A seemingly strong man is sometimes more vulnerable than a child, while a woman is naturally a good mother. The sublimation of a man's emotions is sometimes accomplished when he is most vulnerable.
The period of poverty alleviation and prosperity
Characteristics of danger period: This type of person is often not a playboy or a naturally lecherous type, but at least it is the money that suddenly inflates his male instincts. Their early life is likely to be darker than that of ordinary people, and their frustration in love is also very much on their minds. "They use their money to constantly create sexual encounters, just out of a compensating psychology, and the number of sexual encounters often serves as a criterion for their 'sense of achievement'.". At least for them, statements like love are probably just a joke.
Guidance: It seems that the time has come to mobilize the whole people to discuss the social responsibility of the rich.
Beyond the ambiguous period
Characteristics of the danger period: One or both parties have already had a good feeling for each other, or have developed a relationship, but only maintain an ordinary colleague or friend relationship. An accidental opportunity creates conditions for both parties: accidentally, they suddenly enter a state, and in a daze, the two people break through the boundary
Guide the maze: When opportunities come, women always seem hesitant, but men often seize the opportunity to take the initiative. Opportunistic men sometimes do give women an unexpected surprise, but more often they don't want to take any responsibility for their impulsive behavior.