A while ago, a female friend of mine just found a boyfriend. Her boyfriend has a car and a house, but he is slightly older than him, at the age of thirty. But when my female friend mentioned getting married to him, the man suddenly evaporated from the world, causing my female friend to be very hurt and still hasn't adjusted his mood.
According to common sense, a man is thirty years old and should be at the age of starting a family and business, but why doesn't he want to get married? Including many elderly leftover men in today's society, when it comes to the word 'marriage', they seem to have a systemic allergy. Let's take a look at the psychology of older men who do not want to get married.
I haven't had enough fun yet
How old am I? I just had some money and haven't had enough fun yet. I don't want to turn into a married old man so early! "This is a sentence I heard from a male colleague while chatting with him. Men are naturally playful, which is their nature. But they forgot their responsibilities while playing. At any age, a person should do whatever they want, so men who avoid marriage because they love to play should be more rational.
Fear of losing freedom
In reality, many men have this mentality. They are afraid that after getting married, they will be haunted by their wife all day, by their children, and by the trivialities of life. When they want to do something, they will lose their personal freedom and sometimes even have to report to their wife. Their original life state and circle of friends have changed due to marriage, which is not the life they want.